Little mistakes are what build up to spoil a relationships; also, little things are what makes relationships work, and if those little things aren’t done regularly then the relationship is heading towards failure.
If you give your relationship the same kind of attention you give your mobile phone, your businesses or anything you hold dear then your relationship would blossom.
These 14 little things would definitely improve your relationship
1. APOLOGISE WHEN WRONG
Like I keep saying, a simple ‘I’m sorry’ can save your relationship from lots of quarrels, arguments and malice. When you do wrong, just apologise and move on; it’s the best option if you love your relationship.
2. ACCEPT APOLOGIES
Apologising is one thing and accepting apologies is another. When your partner apologises, be ready to accept it and move on. It saves a lot of stress and makes things easier. Keeping grudges even when your partner is sorry is never the way forward.
3. DO THINGS TOGETHER
You shouldn’t just be lovers with your partner; you should be friends as well. Doing things together like watching a movie, playing games, doing chores would only help increase the bond between you two.
4. NEVER FAIL TO TELL YOUR PARTNER HOW MUCH YOU CARE
One little lesson to learn in life is to make the most of it when you’re alive because it doesn’t last long. If you don’t tell your partner how much you love him or her, who should? Tell that special person how much you love him or her and show it too.
5. COMPLIMENT
Always compliment your partner; if they wear a nice dress, compliment it; if your partner does something nice, never fail to compliment too; this would make your partner happier, and a happier partner would make a happy relationship.
6. PLAN SURPRISES
Spontaneity adds a bit of magic to a relationship. A relationship where your partner always knows what to expect kills the romance. Buy surprise gifts, do things differently, add that magic and keep renewing it; that’s the only way it would feel fresh even after a very long time.
7. GIVE PET NAMES
Giving your partner a special pet name would add that bit of intimacy to your relationship. Studies even suggest that pet names are a sign of a strong relationship.
8. CUDDLE AFTER S*X
S*x shouldn’t just be s*x, it should be an intimate moment with your partner; it should be about love, emotions and creating a special bond. Studies have shown that couples who cuddle after s*x have a more satisfying relationship.
9. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER
If you don’t listen to your partner then I wonder who you should listen to. Listen to your partner attentively, not half-heartedly; with this you pass a salient message that you truly care.
10. HELP EACH OTHER
A relationship should be about helping each other grow and be better. Rather than criticise your partner, give your partner that helping hand and the boost to move forward in life.
11. LEARN TO BE LESS DOMINATING
A relationship shouldn’t just be about what you want and you always having your way; learn to compromise.
12. LEARN NOT TO GET MAD EASILY
Learning to control your temper would have a positive impact on your relationship. Getting easily angry would only lead to more quarrels and fights; your relationship can’t grow that way.
13. BE APPRECIATIVE
Saying ‘thank you’ means you love what your partner did, and it’s also an indirect and subtle way of asking for more. Being appreciative shows that you value your relationship and your partner as well. You shouldn’t select what to appreciate and what not to; don’t wait till your partner does a spectacular thing.
14. TRY TO LEARN FROM PAST MISTAKES
It’s annoying and unfair to your partner if you keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again. Learn from a mistake and make sure it never happens again.
Little things are what separate a successful and unsuccessful relationship. These 14 things would definitely improve your relationship.
Shawn
excellent