This should be the question of the year because this is one big question that no one can give a good answer to. Ladies have always been left thinking of what to do that would forever make them satisfy the seemingly endless, insatiable needs of men. Men, men, men; yea, that’s 90% of things we ladies talk about, and after our entire chitchats about the masculine gender, we haven’t uncovered any useful thing to make us answer the question I’m asking.
What do men really want? If anyone can honestly give me the perfect answer to what men want, I would forever remain indebted to that blessed soul. Men accuse women of wanting so many things; men accuse women of being materialistic and all they have ever wanted is money. I totally agree with that but at least men actually know what women want while we are still left cracking our heads on how to please the masculine gender.
Don’t think I’m just ranting, I have my reasons for saying all these and I honestly wish I’d be proved wrong. I bring you 17 instances that leave ladies cracking their brains over what men really want. I hope you would have the patience to go through them all and prove me wrong that I was merely ranting.
1. Men claim to like a lady with natural beauty but still when we try to be natural, they complain that we aren’t modern enough. So what do you really want guys, a natural beauty or an artificial; we need to know.
2. Men claim they love good girls, but after getting a good girl, they still cheat on her with the bad girls. I thought men claim to be people with principles; where is the principle in this?
3. Men also claim to love a well-shaped lady without the extra baggage but the next second they see a fully shaped lady with all the extras, they lose concentration. What do you actually want guys? I need to know.
4. For the very dark ladies, men claim they are just too dark and this makes a lot of ladies lose their self-esteem but the moment this lady improves her skin to be lighter, the wolves come out to attack; be careful what you wish for fellas.
5. Guys claim to not get attracted to a lady with small boobs, but when she does something to her boobs to increase its size, they just won’t let go. Isn’t that double standard?
6. Guys pretend that they love it when a lady is independent but when they meet an independent lady, they accuse her of being too proud. Is it that they don’t have the balls or they just love talking?
7. If a guy asks you out and you easily say yes, you’re said to be cheap; if you hold your ground, you are just being unnecessarily chaste. Now this makes ladies even get confused whether to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to that man that we really do care about.
8. If you’re good in bed, you are a slut; if you aren’t, you are boring. What more can I say?
9. If you ask him for money, you’re a gold digger; if you don’t then you probably get money by sleeping around. Hmmm
10. If you are the party type, you definitely won’t make for a good wife but if you are the indoor type, you are boring. So we can’t be the indoor type and still can’t be the party type?
11. Men want a lady that respects them but when you respect them they become like a demigod and treat you with disdain. Come on guys, this is unfair.
12. Men want a lady that can cook but still cheat on you with a lady that can’t cook. Now this is getting crazy.
13. Men would kill to get you but when they get you they won’t even hurt a fly to keep you. So much for trust.
14. Men claim they love a lady that would be by their side to help them make it through life issues. But the moment they make some change (cash), they leave you for the next hottest lady.
15. A guy promises heaven and earth to never hurt you, but the moment you say yes, you get tried and tested in hell.
16. A man would promise not to cheat on you but would still have dozens of side chicks by the side.
17. A guy would promise to forever be by you but the moment he gets what he wants, it’s another story entirely. This just makes me feel that men are two-faced.
I’m sure with these questions; we still won’t get the answers. I’ve tried on many occasions to no avail. The worst part is men don’t even know what they really want; so for the last time guys I ask again on behalf of all ladies that share my plight, what do men really want?
MEN WERE MADE JUST LIKE THIS,SO DONT COMPLAIN JUST UNDERSTAND THEM YOU WILL NEVER GO WRONG.
Truthfully, this doesn’t apply to me and I obviously can’t speak for every man.
There’s an infamous saying that all men are the same. That is definitely not true and thus it defines where your hypothesis gives birth from.
Hence, QED is inaccurate.
Don’t get me wrong, some men are thus and way worse but not all men.
No finger print, human dentin nor God given inner self is the same and it applies to both men and women.