Have you ever bothered to ask yourself why you keep meeting the wrong guys? It can be very frustrating when you find yourself falling for the wrong guy always.
Below are things you are doing that prevents you from dating the great guy you desire
1. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A MAN
You would keep meeting the wrong guys if you don’t know what you want in a man. You shouldn’t just say yes to any man; you need to have values you want in a man.
2. YOU ARE SCARED OF BEING SINGLE
When you are scared of being single, you end up choosing the wrong man because you are desperate. It’s better to be single than being in a wrong relationship.
3. YOU EXPECT A MAN TO PROVIDE FOR YOU
If you can’t survive without a man’s finance, you will find it really difficult dating a good guy. While it’s nice to be spoiled by your man, it’s also important you have a source of income and be able to take good care of yourself.
4. YOU IGNORE THE WAY HE TREATS OTHERS
If a man doesn’t respect his mother, don’t expect him to respect you. He can’t give you what he doesn’t have. You need to pay attention to the way he treats others.
5. YOU THINK YOU CAN CHANGE HIM
The only person you can change is yourself. Don’t go into a relationship with the mentality that you can fix him. The only person that can change him is him.
6. YOU HAVE A NEGATIVE MENTALITY
When you think “all men are dogs”, you automatically shut your brain from finding a good man. So all you keep meeting are men who act like dogs. Don’t let a man in your past make you think negatively.
7. YOU DON’T HAVE STANDARDS
You will keep meeting people without standards if you don’t have standards. If you don’t have standards, you will keep falling for the wrong guys.
8. YOU HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM
When you think you don’t deserve better, you will constantly find yourself in relationships with people who disrespect you. Low self-esteem makes you think less of yourself and also makes you feel unworthy of a good guy.
Phil