Are there still good men out there? Yes of course. Just as there are losers, jerks and all sorts of men, there are still good men too who will love you, cherish you and treat you right.
Getting a good man into your life goes beyond how you dress and look; you don’t even have to be the most beautiful woman around to get a good man; it’s more about the values you have.
These tips will help attract a good man to you.
1. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
If you don’t know what you want, you’d want everything, and if you want everything — you can’t have a good man. Know what you want in a man, and it should go beyond the usual “rich, tall and handsome” list that occupies many women’s mind.
Know what you want in a man and what you desire in a relationship and don’t settle for less. Knowing what you want should go beyond cuteness, wealth and style; it should be deeper than those trivial things.
2. LOVE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF
If you don’t love and accept yourself, you are most likely going to attract men who wouldn’t love and accept you; they’d only use you for the time being and dump you when you are bored.
3. NEVER BE DESPERATE
If there is anything you must be, desperation should be far from it. Men have what they see in you and it goes beyond your shape and looks. If a man sees desperation in you, he wouldn’t value you, rather he would only use you for his selfish interests. Never let desperation be a part of your life.
4. BE YOURSELF
The originality in you will attract original people to you. Be who you really are and don’t try to impress the crowd. You’d attract original men to you, who love you for what they see in you.
5. BE CONFIDENT
Love yourself, accept yourself, believe in yourself and be confident in yourself. Your life is like a mirror, and it’s a mirror that people can as well see. Confidence attracts people to you, but a low self-esteem is an attraction killer.
6. LEARN TO SAY “NO”
Learn to say no to certain things and to certain people, else you’d be used by many. Don’t give in to what you feel isn’t right, don’t let anyone pressure you into doing what you shouldn’t — and this is a quality that would make people admire you at the end.
7. CHECK YOURSELF
Check yourself, check your life and check your flaws; most times, these are the things that make you less valued by men and make good men run away from you. Do you nag or complain too much? Are you dishonest? Are you a drama queen? Are you selfish? Do you always try to be in control and do your bidding? These are some of the things that could make you chase the good men away from you, and you wouldn’t even know.
8. BE PATIENT
Learn to be patient; good things happen to people who are patient. When you are impatient, you’ll attract men who would want to act on your impatience and use you in the process.
Be patient and wait for who’s right for you and not just anyone that comes your way.
9. SMILE MORE AND BE EASY TO BE WITH
Smile more; it’s the greatest gift you could give yourself. You become ten times more attractive when you smile more.
Also, be a woman who’s easy to be with; be less of a drama queen and more of a caring woman. When you are easy to be with, you won’t only attract good men to you, you’ll also attract men who would love you and treat you right.
These 9 tips will make you a better woman and attract good men to you.
ViV