It may seem untrue, but it is very true that there are women today who have never reached climax. For these women, It’s not like they do not enjoy sex; they do, but for one factor or another, they still cannot tell what it feels like to have the pleasure of climax. And that is heart- breaking because sexual climax is one of those things that makes sex ‘sex’. It is to sex what a ring is to a wedding; without it, the activity is incomplete.
There is another class of women who suffer anorgasmia (inability to climax). These set of people have had orgasms in the past, but somewhere along the line, stopped. I’ll be looking at both cases and the conditions responsible for them. There are a host of possible factors that may be responsible for a woman’s inability to experience climax; ranging from psychological to physiological and medical factors. Do stay with me as I shed more light on these…
1. THE PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTOR
It has been said that one of the reasons most men who suffer P.E isn’t really because something is wrong with their body medically per se, but because they spend most of their time pondering how to satisfy their woman in bed, and giving her the ‘most incredible sexual experience’ ever rather than just having fun with the activity. This puts so much pressure on them, and consequently hinders them from having a full erection thereby subjecting them to premature ejaculation. This is exactly the same thing that happens with a lot of women who have trouble reaching climax. It’s not like they’re sick and it’s not about their partner’s performance, rather it’s about the amount of pressure they put on themselves trying to climax. They spend so much time worrying about it, they forget to soak themselves in the sexual activity itself, and enjoy the moment. An orgasm isn’t forced; it is not something you force out. It flows naturally the moment everything is in place. It cannot come in your depressed state, you need to clear your mind of every doubt you have about yourself, and you need to stop worrying about having an orgasm; you’re not a doctor, for goodness’ sake. Enjoy sex and it will come.
2. THE PHYSIOLOGICAL FACTORS
Physiological factors here could be from the woman or the man. There are women who are wired very differently from other women. Their vaginal and clitoral formulations are such that it is difficult for them to be as easily sexually excited as other women. There are those whose clitoris is located a little deeper from where it normally is. Now, during sex, this makes it almost impossible to get adequate contact with the man, and without that, the woman cannot get enough pleasure to lead to an orgasm.
The problem could also be from your man. There are men whose organs are not built to please. For example, there are men who have very little or no penile cap. The penile cap is built to give pleasure to the woman by getting contact with her clitoral region. In the absence of this, the woman cannot climax, and that’s because of the man’s sensitivity issues. Apart from a man’s sensitivity, his general performance and longevity in bed can also be a factor, especially if you’re the kind of women that requires a little extra to climax. When the man lasts shorter than normal, you cannot get maximum pleasure, and cannot reach climax. Besides that, does he know what he’s doing? Does he know the right spots to touch and focus on? All these can be a factor.
3. THE MEDICAL FACTORS
The inability to reach climax can be related to certain medical conditions. For example, diabetes or neurological conditions like multiple sclerosis can affect your ability to climax. Gynaecologic surgeries like hysterectomy and cancer surgeries can also affect your orgasm. Drinking and smoking excessively are also a factor.
Apart from these, the transition to menopause can trigger changes in the body that result in the inability of a woman to reach climax.
If you’re suffering anorgasmia, it is recommended that you visit your doctor as he’s in a good position to makes tests and explain what may be the exact cause of your condition.
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U talked of some men spend short time.when. does it become it long.could u apecify in tems if. Minutes