Hello, everyone, it’s another edition of Elcrema Sunday Love Special, and as you know this segment is dedicated strictly to topics surrounding love, dating and relationship.
Today’s topic is an age long debate on if love at first sight really exists. Some would tell you that it exists while many would also rubbish such beliefs and label love at first sight as mere illusions that would never pay off in the real world.
Drama and I (Shawn) would bare our minds on the topic, and your thoughts would as well be valued.
But first, read what Drama thinks about love at first sight below
DRAMA
No, no, no; I do not believe in love at first sight. I do not believe I can meet a woman today, and fall in love with her immediately without getting to really meet her personality. Love isn’t spontaneous; it is built over a period of time. If you’re asking if I believe in attraction at first sight, then yes, I do, but love differs from attraction; it is deeper, and realer.
Before you can say you’re in love with someone, you would have spent quality time with them, and known their true personality. In fact, love is mostly triggered by the things the eyes cannot see, and that’s what makes it difficult for it to happen instantly. I’m very sure the People that coined the phrase ‘love at first sight’ actually meant ‘attraction at first sight’, but many misunderstand this, hence they think otherwise. Some married couples claim to have fallen for each other on their first meeting, but this is absolutely impossible; what actually happened was mere attraction at first sight, but over time, as they spent time together, their attraction grew into something stronger…love. This is the way it is, ain’t no such thing as a spontaneous love.
Click below to read Shawn’s opinion on the subject