A lot of ladies are extremely clingy and don’t even know it. The most confusing part of being clingy is that some men appreciate it while some don’t; what Mr A might see as clingy might not be seen as clingy to Mr B. So it’s about knowing your man and knowing how to act accordingly.
A clingy girlfriend more often than not has this feeling of insecurity and loves to get all the attention at every point.
These are some signs that a typical clingy girlfriend exhibits.
1. SHE WANTS HER MAN’S LIFE TO REVOLVE AROUND HER
This is a typical clingy girlfriend attitude; she doesn’t feel too comfortable when her man is doing his thing and living his life. The clingy girlfriend wants her man’s daily life to revolve around her, and she feels cheated or insecure when this doesn’t happen.
2. SHE’S OVERLY SUSPICIOUS
A clingy girlfriend is overly suspicious about everything even when her man gives her little or no reason to be suspicious. A clingy girlfriend finds it hard to trust her man; she has this counter-trust opinion that men are not to be trusted.
3. SHE FEELS INSECURE WHEN HE HAS A FEMALE FRIEND
A clingy girlfriend doesn’t want her man to have a female friend; she distrusts his relationship with every female friend or colleague and feels terribly insecure when he meets a new lady.
4. SHE HATES WHEN HE’S SPENDING TIME WITH HIS BOYS
You might feel that she would be more comfortable when he’s with his boys, but the clingy girlfriend would also feel that he’s spending too much time with them than he spends with her, even though he actually spends more time with her.
5. SHE FEELS SHE’S THE ONLY PERFECT PERSON FOR HIM
The clingy girlfriend feels that every other person has a negative impact on her man, except her. She feels only she knows what’s best for him and she’s the perfect one for him, while every other person has something negative to offer.
6. SHE HATES IT WHEN AN ATTRACTIVE LADY IS CLOSE TO HER MAN
The clingy girlfriend feels very vulnerable and insecure when an attractive lady is close to her man. One stare from her man towards the other lady would make her feel like he has already cheated on her.
7. SHE DOESN’T GIVE HER MAN SPACE
The clingy girlfriend doesn’t see any need to give her man some space; to her, there is no need for space in the relationship. She wants to be with him always and hates it that her man has a life outside her.
8. SHE ALWAYS HAS SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT
Almost every clingy girlfriend has something or the other to complain about her man or the relationship. To the clingy girlfriend, there is always something not right about her man or the relationship that needs improvement.
9. SHE WANTS TO KEEP IN TOUCH AT ALL TIMES
Busy is a word that the clingy girlfriend hates; it doesn’t exist in her dictionary. The clingy girlfriend would even want to call you at your busiest hour; she hates the fact that you are busy.
Do you show any of these aforementioned signs? You might just be a clingy girlfriend and don’t even know.
ViV