7 SIGNS HE’S NOT REALLY INTO YOU

I’ve written on the little signs he show when he’s into you; but how about when he isn’t really into you?

Whether you are in a new relationship with him or he’s trying to start a relationship with you, there are certain signs a man lets out when he isn’t that into you.

1. HIS BODY LANGUAGE

If you can focus more on his body language and focus a bit less on what he says, then it would be easier to know a man that’s really into you and the one that isn’t.

Body language is everything; if he’s telling you he cares about you, but his body language shows signs of being impatient, uncomfortable, nonchalant and so many other negatives, then he just might not be into you.

2. HE DOESN’T REALLY WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU

This is another huge sign of a man that’s not really into you. A man who is into you would create time for you in abundance, and he would do this without any sentiment or ulterior motive. However, if he only creates time for you when he’s in need of something or rarely wants to spend much time with you, then he isn’t into you.

3. HE DOESN’T LIKE TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU

A man can’t be into you and not want to communicate with you; it’s like ant not being interested in sugar — you know it’s hardly ever possible. When he rarely keeps in touch, or he doesn’t show much interest in talking to you even when you are together, then something is definitely wrong. If you are the one who always keeps the conversation going, and he hardly attempts to have a heart-to-heart or deep conversation with you then that man isn’t really into you.

4. HE DOESN’T TREAT YOU LIKE YOU ARE SPECIAL

A man that’s into you would want you to feel special; he lets you know that you are special and he treats you thus. But when there is no feeling of you being special then it’s because you are not really special to him.

5. HE STAYS FOR LONG WITHOUT SEEING YOU

When he stays for a considerable long period of time without seeing you or making any move to see you, then something just isn’t right. No man stays away from what he values for too long.

6. THERE’S ALWAYS AN EXCUSE

A man that’s not really into you has loads of excuses in store for you; he would keep giving you excuses till the end of the relationship. He never runs out of excuses.

7. YOU CAN’T REALLY TELL

The mind is a strong tool, but we tend to underestimate it. When you can’t really tell if your man is into you or not, it’s simply because he isn’t really into you. There is no sitting on the fence in this situation; it’s either a yes or a no, no maybe.

Being with a man who isn’t really into you only  undervalues your worth. He’s either into you or not; if he’s here and there, then you ought to take a break from the relationship, till he’s sure of himself at least.

You deserve the best at all times. Never forget this.

ViV