By the age of 30, a man is expected to be mature and have a good understanding of what it takes to be in a relationship. If you don’t have a good understanding of relationships by age 30, I just wonder when you will.
Below are 6 things every guy should know about relationships by 30
1. LEARN TO LET GO
At age 30, it’s expected you know how to handle relationship mishaps better and learn to let go. You can’t continue thinking of that pretty girlfriend you dated when you were in the university that broke your heart. At this age, it’s expected you know how to keep the past in the past.
2. YOU SHOULD KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING FAITHFUL
At 30, it’s expected you are mature enough and know what you want. Unfaithfulness is for little boys and a guy who is now 30 is supposed to act like a man and not a little boy. Being unfaithful at this age shows you aren’t acting your age.
3. THERE IS NO PERFECT WOMAN
Just as there is no perfect man, there is also no perfect woman too. At age 30, you are expected to know this. Stop kidding yourself by searching for a perfect woman that doesn’t exist. Find a woman whose flaws you can tolerate and stick with her. Every woman has flaws so stop searching for a women without flaws. At age 30, you are expected to know this.
4. YOU SHOULD KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATION IN A RELATIONSHIP
At age 30, it’s expected you know that communication is a two-way street. While it’s okay to be the guy who always has a nice story to talk about, it’s also important you be the guy who knows how to listen without interrupting. At age 30, you should learn to be open to your partner’s opinions as your relationship isn’t about you alone.
5. MONEY ISN’T EVERYTHING
Sometimes as men, we get tempted to believe everything starts and ends with money. At age 30, you should know better. While it’s nice to have all the money in the world, how you treat your lady is really important. At 30, you should also know that you mustn’t have all the money before you settle down because you might wait forever if you want to have all the money first.
6. YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP
At age 30, it’s expected you know what you want out of a relationship. If all you want from a relationship is just sex, it’s obvious you aren’t acting your age.