6 THINGS YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT WITH YOUR PARTNER BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED

There is a lot more to marriage than just the wedding day. In fact, marriage is not the wedding, per se, it is what comes after. It is the many days and years that you spend together with your spouse after the wedding day. This is why it is always advised to include more than just the wedding in your plans for marriage because failure to do so may have regrettable repercussions.

As you consider the plans for the wedding, it is also necessary to discuss certain issues with your partner, because they are issues that will affect you in your marriage every day, and if you do not discuss these things, they may be the very things that could end up ruining your marriage. I have put together 6 of these vital topics, please, continue.

1. YOUR PAST

Before you walk down the aisle, to say ‘I do’ to your potential husband / wife, it is important to intimate each other on your past lives. What are those things that you did yesterday or in your past life that you feel they deserve to know? It is always better to tell them yourself, than for the past to come calling later when you least expect it to. Happy unions have been ruined by issues such as this.

2. SEX

Sex is a very sensitive topic, but is often ignored by a lot of people, usually to the detriment of their relationship / marriage somewhere along the line. People have different sexual fantasies and limits, so it is necessary to disclose these things to your partner before you get married, as it can cause serious troubles in the future. Your partner needs to know what your sexual limits are, and what your likes and dislikes are in bed.

3. YOUR SECRETS

Similar to the first point i talked about, but still different. Sometimes, you do not really have a dark past, but you just have something you feel you cannot share with anybody, either because of shame or you’re just not proud of it. However, marriage is a ‘no secret’ zone. You cannot be with someone in marriage, and hide anything from them, it shows lack of trust, and that is unhealthy for a happy union, so it is important to spill all necessary info and clean out your closet as you step into the next phase of your life.

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