Males are seen by society as the stronger gender who need no loving or protecting, and people who will always be good regardless, but this is not true. Men have valid needs just like women do, and it’s your responsibility as his woman to attend to most of them, at least. But how do you satisfy needs you know nothing about?

Well, here’s a list of some of the things men want in a relationship.


Love can make people do anything, even the ones they’re most uncomfortable with. Your man has probably tried to impress you all the while you’ve been together, but the truth is that deep down, he wishes you’d just take him the way he is, and he doesn’t have to impress you. It’s not a bad thing to reassure your man that you love him regardless of looks or status; it goes a long way in boosting his confidence.


Men are also humans, and they need support in every way you can imagine. When he goes broke financially, he deep-down expects you to assist in whatever way you can, especially if you can. When he is suffering emotional trauma or pressure from maybe work, he also needs some love and attention.


Women love to be pampered, and so do men. Men appreciate it when you get them gifts, cook their favourite meal, take them out to the movies, etc. This is one of the many things that make them human, you know?


When a man loves you, he expects the same in return. No man is happy with just a fling when he is very much interested in you; he doesn’t want to just have a moment in the sheet with you, he also needs some loving and a deeper relationship.


It doesn’t matter how playful a man gets, if he respects you, he also expects the same. No man is happy being undermined or disrespected by his own woman. In fact, he even expects you to defend him in public.


No matter how serious one is, there’s always that one person with whom they’re totally loose and free. Your man appreciates a bit of fun and craziness from you now and then.



  1. Hmmmm, I am wet up with what i have learnt today from the 6 things men would want women to do for them. I am dumbfounded. I have done the opposite all these years being in marriage. Thank you very much. I am open to change, so I know this has changed my thinking and actions toward my spouse. God bless you

  2. I think this is more like someone reading the minds of others. I love this analysis, it keeps anyone up.Except not human. Thanks

  3. I broke my relationships my self even with out any effort for not knowing what I have read today now am too disappointed that I don’t want relationship again

  4. My name is Solomn i like this analyst ,this person knows what is saying and it’s true God bless you

  5. Hellen mama's gayl | December 27, 2018 at 2:39 pm |

    Like this too..,its lit

  6. Hellen mama's gayl | December 27, 2018 at 2:42 pm |

    Gosh!! this is lit… Im already in the mood

  7. I was thinking that men are to pamper women. But today my mind set has changed. I’ve been lying to myself. It’s not the way things should be. We women must take part.

  8. Wow it is so explainable and lovely,I have learned alot of things from this,am greatfulll

  9. True l agree with what you say as well as women need support care and love,ao do the men

  10. Thank God ive been trying, ive learnt more. God bless u

  11. Thanks for this analysis, I’ve learnt a lot. God bless you

  12. I have done all to him but he doesn’t appreciate ir

  13. nice package God bless

  14. it’s good to have such a topic coz women will learn more. Allah’s blessings be upon you.

  15. I have found what i needed to hear. blesss you and hope to hear from you more on these issues.

  16. I have pampered my man. Gone way beyond that extra mile. Took care of him after major surgery. I wait on him hand and foot. I always have done that. His dinner is always on the table. He gets oral sex all the time. But he is never there for me. We have been together 27 years. It was great the first 20. I think I’m still attractive with a good body. He never wants to touch me I need surgery on my neck and will need care for at least 3 months. I have others who will help. But I don’t believe he will do a thing for me. As I almost died 3 years ago when I was in I.C.U 4 days and never came to see me. Never called. He works very hard. I’ve worked with him doing construction for over 22 years. He says he loves me. But it sure feels more like I’m his care provider. What’s anyone’s opinion on this ? Is he cheating ? Is he just comfortable because I do everything for him in n our home ? I’m just very hurt and lost. I’m a passionate and romantic woman. I love to touch and be touched. I please him in ways that friends can’t believe. Love is love. I should probably just move on. Any suggestions ??????

  17. George Ngore | May 3, 2019 at 5:53 pm |

    Ok.they have gotten it right.

  18. wow indeed this analysed read our minds and feelings.ireally enjoyed reading these infront of my wife

  19. This really nailed it! I wish women, myself too will remove from our hearts that perception that men are strong hence needs no pampering,care and support… …it’s a very wrong believe.
    Love this post, really.

  20. this is really a mind opener
    was thinking is only women that need pampering.

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