Why do women keep falling for the wrong guys? This is a question that has been asked over a thousand times. Recently, we brought you a study which found that men are attracted to nice women, but women aren’t attracted to the nicer men.
What are the nice guys doing wrong?
Nice guys are usually the best every woman can have, but when faced to choose between a nice guy and a probable player, women are prone to go for the latter than the former. This happens time after time.
Below are reasons why the nicer men have little luck in attracting ladies:
1. THEY FALL FOR THE WRONG LADIES
This is even the major problem in the first place; nice guys most times fall for the arrogant ladies, the so-called high-class ladies and the sort; they rarely go for the nicer ladies, and in turn they get rejected.
2. THEY LACK CONFIDENCE
Confidence is a trait that is easily seen even from a distance, and a lack of it is also seen even from a farther distance. Women are attracted to men with confidence, and men with low self-esteem are a turn off to women. Most nice guys lack confidence; they go months and years without being able to speak to a lady they like; they most times have this fear of rejection.
3. THEY ARE PREDICTABLE
Nice guys play safe a lot of the times; they lack spontaneity, and this is a trait most women find desirable. Being too predictable can translate to being boring; women don’t like a bore.
4. THEY AREN’T CHARMING
Women love charming men; men that can say the right words at the right time, not a man who would stutter or lack the words to say.
5. WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO MEN THAT OTHER WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO
This is also another subconscious reason why the nice guys rarely get their dream woman. Women are attracted to men that other women find attractive; they love to be a source of envy, this is a major reason they fall for the bad guys, the players and the arrogant guys, but prefer having the nice guys as friends.
6. WOMEN PERCEIVE THEM AS BEING TERRIBLE IN BED
Every woman subconsciously wants a man who would wow her in bed, and the nice guys aren’t seen as capable to fit into the bill. Women don’t necessarily go into a relationship for sex, but they are somewhat attracted to men that have a sexual charm.
These traits are more prevalent during the younger days of a woman; but the nice guys never lose at the end, contrary to popular beliefs.
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