No one wants a bad friend and you can just be one without even knowing it. Purge yourself of those habits that make you a bad friend and save your friendship.
Below are 5 signs you are the worst friend ever
1. YOU TALK TOO MUCH:
Your friendship with your friends shouldn’t always be about you. Most people love to be the centre of attraction in their relationships with friends. They hardly do any listening and always do the talking. It shouldn’t always be about you, take a break and listen to your friend.
2. ALWAYS LATE:
Stop using the excuse of being too busy because your friends are busy too. It’s okay to be late sometimes but when you make it a habit anytime you are supposed to hang out with your friends, it’s really bad and it doesn’t portray you as a good friend.
3. YOU NEVER INITIATE:
If you don’t call your friends to check on them or plan hang outs with them, you make your friends think you don’t value them. It shouldn’t be your friend doing the calling every time or planning the hangouts, try creating out time to do same.
4. YOU ALWAYS ASK BUT NEVER GIVE:
Friends always watch out for each other and are always there in times of need but if what you do is always ask but never give, you are the worst friend ever. Just because they are your friends doesn’t mean you should always run to them for assistance; they have their lives to live too and you should learn to take care of yourself sometimes.
5. NOT UNDERSTANDING PEOPLE CHANGE:
You shouldn’t expect your friend to remain the same person 10 years from now. People change and you should understand that. Just because your friend has the time to go get a bottle of beer with you every evening now doesn’t mean they might have that time five years from now.
Viv