Before you blame anyone for your relationship mishaps, I think you should take a moment to take a good look at yourself.
Many women are finding it difficult getting a blissful relationship because they are actually ruining their love life with certain habits they possess.
Below are 5 ways most ladies ruin their love life
1. NOT PROPERLY MOVING ON FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP
One way most ladies ruin their love life is by holding on to a failed relationship. Most ladies find it difficult to move on and let go. Not letting go will ruin your new relationship. Avoid the temptation of always talking about how your ex sucks with your new man. When you always talk about your ex with your new man, you are indirectly telling him you haven’t moved on from your previous relationship. Learn to move on and let go for the sake of your love life.
2. GOING AFTER GUYS WHO ARE NOT AVAILABLE
This is another way most ladies ruin their love life. No matter how attractive a guy is, if he is unavailable, please avoid going after him. Guys who are married or recently separated are a no-go area. You can’t have a blissful relationship with such guys. The guy who is recently separated isn’t really available emotionally as he needs time to move on, so going after him is risky as chances are that he would use you as a rebound.
3. ALWAYS BEING AT HIS BECK AND CALL
Being at a man’s beck and call spells doom for you as a lady and it’s not a scenario you would love to be in. Avoid being too available for your man. I see ladies who always break their own plans at the last minute to become available to see a guy and that’s really wrong. Doing it once in a while is ok but it shouldn’t be a regular habit. You shouldn’t always meet your man when it’s convenient for him alone. While compromise is important in every relationship, compromise is supposed to be a two-way street. You can’t be the only one compromising to see him, you should also expect him to do so if he sincerely cares.
4. YOUR ROUTINE MAKES IT HARD FOR YOU TO MEET NEW PEOPLE
This is another reason it’s difficult for most ladies to find love. Their schedule is always too tight and they barely have free time for themselves. You have to create out time for yourself because being always busy means you miss opportunities to get out there and meet a potential partner.
5. YOU RUSH YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
Rushing a new relationship is the fastest way to end the relationship. You can’t be talking about forever during your first or second date. That doesn’t make sense to me because you haven’t taken time to know your new man. Men see you as desperate when you rush a relationship. Avoid bringing up the marriage talk too early. You have to be absolutely sure the both of you are on the same page before all the talk about spending forever together.
Phil