Anger is one emotion that kills many relationships; it’s a relationship destroyer and if care is not taken, it would lead to so many other things.
It’s easier for a man to be angry and maintain his calm than for a lady. When a lady is overly angry she can do so many things that would just end up ruining the relationship.
There are some things you should rather not say to a lady when she’s angry, because it wouldn’t do anything to help the relationship.
1. “YOU DON’T THINK BEFORE DOING THINGS”
Even when she’s in a calmer mood, this is one sentence she wouldn’t take too lightly; so how do you expect her to take it when she’s in an angry mood. This talk is directed at her thinking, making her feel you think she has a low thinking mentality and it would definitely make her angrier. If your lady is angry, come off talks like this; it would definitely do your relationship no good.
2. “WHY DO YOU GET ANGRY EASILY?”
One thing about being angry is that even a slightly harsh word can be seen as a very big insult; if you deem her as one who gets angry easily, it definitely wouldn’t help matters. With this word, you are making her feel you think everything is her fault.
3. “I HATE YOU”
What were you thinking? This would further ruin your relationship; if you are not ready for a crash in that relationship then this is one statement that you should try as much as possible to avoid.
4. “I’M FED UP”
Just like the previous saying, if you aren’t ready to quit the relationship, don’t say such words. Women have a high retentive memory when it comes remembering words that were said at the heat of the moment, and this is one of such words that she would hold in her heart even when it seems like everything is okay.
5. “IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT”
Blame game is one thing that kills many relationships. Your partner putting all the blame on you could be so frustrating even when you are not angry, and it feels even worse when one is angry. Blaming your lady when she’s angry with you is like adding fuel to fire; she would never take it lightly; sometimes as the man, you should let things slide.
In a relationship, I think the man should be able to hold some restraints from saying things that would further take the relationship down the gutter. It’s better to let things slide than to have a war of words with your lady; you might not like the final outcome of the war.
Shawn