Sometimes one could be in a relationship and have no idea that it isn’t a relationship. So many people have even confused a relationship based on just sex to be a real relationship.
A relationship is one that can even survive even when there is little or no sex, but a sexual relationship is one that’s just strictly about sex and nothing else.
Have you been in a sexual relationship without knowing? Now is the time you know what your relationship has been like all the while.
1. THERE IS NOTHING ELSE BRINGING YOU BOTH TOGETHER
Some relationships are bound only by sex; apart from sex there is no other thing that brings both partners together. If it isn’t sex then it ought to be sex; meaning no sex, no relationship. But in a real relationship there are so many things that still keep both couples together.
2. NOTHING OUTDOOR
In this kind of relationship, outdoor fun and recreation is a farfetched idea; all dates are on the bed; if it’s not on a bed then there is nothing pleasurable. A relationship like this has no fun; the only thing both couples enjoy is when in the sheet.
3. NO FUTURE PLANS
A healthy relationship always have a little thought at least of the future and what the relationship really holds, but in a purely sexual relationship it’s just about the present. When there is no other desire but just to hit the sheets then there can be no thoughts of the future.
4. NOTHING CHANGES
Year in, year out it’s all the same. In a healthy relationship there are surprises; things change over time, both partners in the relationship still do so much to keep the relationship alive, and this makes the relationship work. It’s the other way round in a sexual relationship; nothing changes, it’s all sex, and sex, year in year out.
5. NO LIFE AFTER SEX
In a relationship that just hovers around sex, sex is the only thing that would keep the passion in that relationship burning; other than that the relationship would have no life. All visits, all conversations, everything about the relationship are circled around sex.
6. NO SERIOUSNESS, NO COMMITMENT
In this kind of relationship based on sex, commitment is a rarity; one or even both partners wouldn’t be serious enough to take the relationship to the next level; the relationship just hovers around the same area till it fades off. This kind of relationship doesn’t even prepare one on how to have a real relationship; no seriousness, no commitment, nothing.
Many people are in this kind of relationship; some enjoy it, some have no option while some don’t even know that their relationship is headed this way.
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