Drama
There is a limit to everything, and forgiveness isn’t an exception. No one man alive can claim to have an endless stream of forgiveness flowing inside of them—Only God can lay claim to that virtue. So of course, as a human being, there’ll be a point when you would have had your fill of blatant disregard and disrespect for your feelings irrespective of whom it is coming from—for me, that is the point where you stop forgiving and tolerating.
Tolerance has a limit to its elasticity. A person cannot continue to toy with your emotions and you keep on forgiving them simply because you love or like them; when that happens, you may end up losing your self-worth. So definitely, there is a limit to how much you can forgive your partner for their wrongs. And that is when their mischief or wrongs become habitual/recurring. When it dawns on you that they’re deliberately taking advantage of your forgiving nature /personality. When you realize that your feelings bear no meaning to that them; that they only care about themselves, and not the way you feel. When you realize that no matter how many more times you forgive the partner in question, they still won’t change—because they’re incorrigible—for me, that is when you stop forgiving.
So at what point do you think you should stop?
That’s today’s edition of elcrema Sunday love special