Sometime ago, I wrote an article highlighting some of the many reasons why anyone would suddenly grow tired of their relationship, and decide to dump their partner, but on that occasion, I wrote from a man’s perspective (you can find that post HERE, if you missed it). So, to balance every book, and be fair, this time I’ll be telling things from a woman’s P.O.V.
Why would she grow tired of being with you?
1. YOU’RE SHADY
Lies, lies, excuses, and more excuses — when you stop (or aren’t) being straight and honest with your partner, you give her a reason to lose interest in you. Because no one wants to be in a relationship where they’re perpetually in the dark…or be with someone who isn’t straight with them, and by that I mean ‘openness’. People (especially women) want to know your every dealing when they’re in a relationship with you; including the friends you keep, what you do for a living, and your every move. When they don’t get that sort of openness and honesty from you, they may get the impression that you’re not committed to the relationship enough.
2. YOU’RE A BORE
A relationship isn’t a prison where people get in and lose their social; It is meant to be fun, thrilling, inspiring, and, adventurous. When these are lacking in any relationship, it becomes bland, and believe me, it will not last long enough. As the man in the relationship, you’re expected to keep it alive by being fun, outgoing, romantic and as unpredictable as possible. Surprise her with presents and sweet texts/ notes, take her out to fun places often, and give her amazing treats. Sometimes, love isn’t enough; it is things like these that keep a relationship going. A man who doesn’t know how to keep his woman will definitely lose her to another.
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