There have been lots of talks about a woman who catches a man’s attention on the first instance – to some say it’s her eyes, some would say her attitude, and many say it’s her smile among other things. But as much as I agree that there are things about women that appeal to men in general, it is also important to acknowledge that people differ, so our reasons for being attracted to other people can also be individualistic.
Okay, now let’s go back to those features about women that tend to attract men in general. Check out some 6 of them.
1. YOUR FACE
I think this is about the first thing most men notice when they see you. So, it is important to keep it as attractive as possible. Do the right makeup, if you must, but make sure you don’t overdo it, as too much could ruin your face. And smile always…a face without a good smile is not attractive.
2. YOUR CURVES
Between this and your face, I’m not sure which gets the most attention. Lol. Men love curves – that is the simple truth, no matter how some of us try to pretend about it. So, if you’ve got it, ladies, you’re a star! This doesn’t mean that we do not notice women without curves, too. You may lack in this department, and be excellent in another.
3. YOUR ATTITUDE
How you treat and relate with a man on your first (couple of) meeting(s) goes a long way in determining what sort of impression he has about you. So, always be on your best behaviour, and be receptive and courteous because you never know.
4. YOUR FRIENDS
‘Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are’…isn’t that how it’s said? We take notice of the kind of people you keep around you, and believe it or not, they have a say in what we think about you. Keep the right company, we’ll be impressed.
5. YOUR HAIR
Yes, we also care about what your hair looks like and smell like. Is it neat? Does it fit the face? Does it smell good? Don’t think we don’t care, ladies, we do.
6. YOUR BAG
There was a time when this wouldn’t have made the list, but times are changing and more men are becoming more fashion-conscious. Some of us take notice of every detail, including your bag, and will assess you based on how impressed we are by it. So, ladies, always bring your A- game!