Most ladies are stuck to dating patterns that condemns them to meeting the same type of guys and ending up in a failed relationship.
If you want to meet the right type of guy, you need to change your approach to dating as a woman.
Below are 6 things to do if you want to meet the right type of guy
1. YOU HAVE TO BE REALISTIC
One major problem most ladies have is that they have refused to be honest with themselves. Every lady seems to want a hot and good-looking guy which isn’t bad but you also have to know that every lady wants them too. So it becomes a chase among the ladies while the super hot guy enjoys the attention and warmth from all the ladies. Before you jump into a relationship with that guy and let him have you in bed, you have to ask yourself if that guy wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him.
2. DON’T GO FOR PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
If you sit down for some minutes and ask yourself why most of your relationships failed, you might just discover that you have been repeating the same mistake over and over again. Going for physical attraction is the mistake I am talking about. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with dating a good-looking guy but attractiveness alone isn’t a good basis for a relationship. It’s important you go for connection and not just physical attraction. Use your brain to choose the guy you want and not your eyes.
3. NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE MEANT TO LAST
We definitely won’t see ladies fighting over a man if all ladies knew this. The earlier you understand this, the better for you. Some relationships are meant to teach us valuable lessons about being in a relationship and not last forever. You won’t continue being in a relationship that isn’t working if you know that not all relationships are meant to last. Give that person a chance and don’t get too hung up on ‘happy ever after’.
4. FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE NOT ALWAYS ACCURATE
You might struggle to meet the right type of guy if you always write people off after a poor first impression. First impressions are often wrong so if you judge every guy you meet based on first impression, you might throw away that one date that can turn into a lifelong love. Forget first impressions.
5. HAVING A PARTICULAR TYPE OF GUY YOU DATE
You can’t meet the right type of guy for you when you always insist on dating certain types of guys. Ask so many married people out there and most will tell you that they nearly refused dating their spouse because their spouse wasn’t their type.
6. MAKE NEW FRIENDS
Just because a guy isn’t your type is no reason not to be friends with him. I suggest you make new friends because if he isn’t the type of guy you are used to, chances are he would introduce you to a whole new range of things and who says he can’t turn out to be your type tomorrow. He might just be the right type for you and you might never know if you don’t at least become friends with him.
Phil