3. YOU MIGHT LOSE THAT MAN IN THE PROCESS
When you choke a man and become too desperate, you might end up losing that man, not because he never loved you but because your desperation might just make him have doubts. Every man wants to be sure he’s making the right decision when he’s getting married; marriage isn’t always an easy decision for a man, he loves to be ready first. There are better ways to influence him into thinking that he’s ready other than forcing or choking him, and that would make him want you the more. But when you apply the method of trying to coerce your man into marriage, you might end up chasing that man away.
4. YOU BECOME ANNOYING
A lot of women employ this tactic of pressuring their man into marriage, and they feel it’s the right step to making their man ready for marriage; coming from a man I’d call that bull***t. Almost every woman becomes annoying to a man when they seem desperate; the fact it has worked for a couple of ladies doesn’t mean it would work on most men. A desperate woman becomes annoying because she would be less caring, nag and pester a lot and employ all manner of antics that would make her seem rather annoying.
I still belong to that traditional school of thought which believes that the woman’s worth is at a higher level when she’s chased and not when she chases after a man. There is nothing wrong in wanting commitment from your man…it’s a good thing; but when you have to fight for it then it becomes an act of desperation.
If that man loves you, he wouldn’t want to let you go, and if you feel he wouldn’t commit to you it’s better to leave the relationship and keep your worth intact than fight for what probably might not be yours.
ShawnÂ