Kissing is a beautiful thing because it allows us express our feelings for those we care about, and of course, it’s also a good part of foreplay, but sometimes, you realize that a lot of people shy away from kissing — and that is because too many people do it wrong.
Kissing is like any other game, there are guiding rules– and boundaries. The moment you cross them, you render the experience boring, if not disgusting. There is a given way to kiss, and there is a way not to kiss. Today, I’ll be throwing more light on the latter. Come with me…
1. TALKING WHILE KISSING
Kissing is not sex, where you want to talk and hear your partner talk; it is a deep activity that requires concentration and consistency if it’s to be worth remembering. When you kiss and talk, you kill the mood because then, you’ll have to disengage your mouth from their own, and nobody likes that. Ever wondered why people close their eyes when they kiss? It’s because during that moment, they’re lost and trapped; when you talk, you’re likely to kill that moment for them. A lot of people make this mistake often. They kiss for 3 seconds, and talk for 3 seconds, thinking they’re doing the right thing. It is annoying! When you kiss, keep your thoughts to yourself, and focus more on the business.
Lip-licking is allowed during kissing, but if you’re going to do it, it must feel good and right on your partner– you must do it along with other things, like a little nibbling and biting (moderate biting). Don’t just lick your partner’s lips like an imbecile learning to eat; add some spice, and make the experience fun.
I don’t know what your idea of kissing is, but in my knowledge, it doesn’t involve painting your partner on their entire face and neck with saliva, like a dog would. Kissing involves some saliva, but only a bit, even then, you can’t go putting your saliva on her face. When you kiss, learn to control some of your own saliva if need be rather than slobbering, otherwise, you’re going to completely ruin the moment!
4. DEAD LIPS
Have you ever kissed someone, and it didn’t feel right at all? Kind of like you were kissing a dead body or doing it against their will? Nothing could be more annoying, but sadly, this is the way it is with some people. They’re totally lifeless during any moment of intimacy. I don’t know the reason for this, perhaps it’s shyness, or sheer naivety, but it is wrong. Nothing ruins the mood more for me as this. If you’re guilty of this, you must stop. Learn to respond and return the love by kissing back. Kissing isn’t that hard, just move your lips, for starters.
Kissing brings passion; it is more important than you think it is.