Shawn
Many ladies would tell you that dating a broke guy can be frustrating and to an extent I agree with them, but can a relationship survive if the man is broke? This to me isn’t a question that should be given a yes or no answer; basically a relationship should be able to survive as far as love exists in the relationship but in the real world, sometimes love isn’t just enough, not all ladies would enjoy a relationship where their man can’t afford some vital things.
They say diamonds are a lady’s best friend, rose would charm her heart and a date would show that you really care; but what if a man can’t afford all these but still loves his lady, would the relationship survive? To be honest, it hardly would.
Inasmuch as we try to say material things doesn’t matter in relationships, deep down we know it really does matter. Picture a man without a car, without the clothes, without money and without a job, would he still be attractive enough to his lady? I really doubt that.
Ladies want a man that can spoil them inasmuch as he loves them, meaning even though love is the vital factor here, it isn’t the only factor. So if a man can love them 100 percent but can’t afford to give her a treat on her birthday or he can’t afford to take her on a dinner date or can’t afford to give her a surprise gift, the relationship would barely be able to survive if something doesn’t happen to that man’s account fast.
Friends somehow have an impact on the lady’s thinking; if her friends are involved fancy or high profile relationships then it could have an effect on her mentality or they can even pressure her into dating someone more fancied.
Also, it doesn’t only end on the part of the lady; most times men that can’t afford to give their ladies such treats usually have low self-esteem and this can kill the relationship. A man who really isn’t in charge (so to speak) of the relationship would find it difficult to stay in a relationship where he can’t maintain a certain tempo.
Now back to the question; can a relationship survive if the man is broke? Yes, it can actually survive if both partners work hard to keep the relationship going, but more often than not this isn’t always the case.
That’s our take on this issue; do you think a relationship can survive if the man is broke?
It all depends on how long you have been together. In today’s world you deal with lots of vultures (men depending on women for day to day living) so if we date for a couple of months and you all of a sudden not only broke but needs financial assistance from me i would say no it won’t work. If you in it for the right reasons there is a definite yes that it will work out IF the lady keeps on to treat her partner with respect. there is so many factors here that can influence it…..
Nice one Iorna