Shawn
Heartbreak occurs when you trust someone with your heart, and trust that the person is the right one for you only for the person to take advantage of your trust.
It’s really a bitter experience but it still doesn’t change the fact that being in love with someone who loves you genuinely is a beautiful thing. Sometimes we suffer heartbreaks as a result of our own negligence; you shouldn’t expect any better when you give your heart to someone who isn’t worth it; time and time again such people would make you unhappy at the end.
But in all, it still doesn’t mean you should give up on love. In the words of Maya Angelou, “have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time”.
Two basic things to always consider before entering another relationship after a setback are: whether you have moved on, and whether you have met someone who would truly be there for you. The two things are essential and one can’t go without another.
First, if you haven’t moved on, if your heart hasn’t healed then there is absolutely no way you can have an enjoyable relationship even if you are with the right person. The relationship might fail because you won’t trust your partner and you won’t love that person enough, which are two prerequisites for a healthy relationship.
Secondly, you have to be sure that the person you are going into the relationship with loves you; if that person is just there for a stroll in the park then you would end up being heartbroken again.