Sometimes, what you say can go a long way in determining how healthy your relationship would be. Also, what you say and how you say it can as well make your relationship a living hell. This means that words are powerful and have an extraordinary effect on relationships; so it’s important to say the right things to your partner more often.
Since your words can actually keep your relationship healthy, choose to say some positive things always. The ones below are good for starters
1. HOW DID YOUR DAY GO?
This is always important. Asking your partner how their day at work went or whatever they partook in shows that you actually care about them, and that’s an important message that can go a long way in helping the relationship get stronger.
2. YOU ARE LOOKING GOOD
There is no one who wouldn’t smile at a compliment, especially when it’s from the heart. You must never fail to tell your partner how wonderful they look, because they expect to hear it from you — and if they don’t, they would definitely feel bad — if they do hear it from you, they would feel wonderful. You ought to make your partner feel wonderful.
3. I LOVE IT WHEN YOU…
You also ought to tell your partner that one thing they do that makes you happy, or that one thing they do that you love. This is also another way of showing appreciation to your partner.
4. I’M SORRY
You must definitely screw up at something, and there is no better thing to say at that point than an apology. Give up with the excuses, just admit your mistakes and apologise for it. ‘I’m sorry’ would save your relationship from further quarrels.
5. I LOVE YOU
How often do you tell your partner how much you care about them or how much you love them? If your partner is special to you and holds a special place in your heart then you ought to say and show this more often.
6. THANK YOU FOR…
You shouldn’t wait till your partner does something extraordinary before showing appreciation; that is being greedy. Appreciate your partner for the little things like a simple meal, a helping hand in your laundry or just anything. Showing appreciation means you have value for even the little things your partner does.
7. I MISS YOU
I think telling your partner that you miss them is very romantic, even though they’re probably just at work. Your partner doesn’t have to be miles apart from you before you miss them. Tell that special someone you miss through a simple text message and you would make that person’s day.
8. YOU ARE MY FAVOURITE PERSON
Spice up the romance in your relationship, and this is a definite way to spice things up. Your partner ought to be your favourite person, and telling your partner how special he or she is would definitely make your partner feel special and loved.
9. THAT YOU’RE ATTRACTED TO THEM
Never fail to tell your partner how attractive they are and how attracted you’re to them also. Make your partner feel good about himself or herself. Compliment their dress sense, their body, their scent…just anything — make your partner feel good and your relationship would come off better.
You have to know that what you say and even what you don’t say are what makes your relationship lively or static. Say the right words more often to your partner and watch your relationship get better.
Shawn