People are usually in awe of beautiful marriages, but beautiful marriages don’t just happen; beautiful marriages are a product of the couple’s investment in the marriage.
It’s when both partners play their roles that a marriage would be beautiful.
A good husband ought to do the following:
1. TELL HER YOU LOVE HER
It’s important you tell your wife what she means to you, how much she means to you and how much you value her. It’s important you this, but it doesn’t end here.
2. SHOW HER
It doesn’t end at what you say; what you show her is also important. You ought to show her how much she means to you — telling her isn’t enough, you ought to show her too.
3. BE RESPECTFUL
Respect is another part of marriage that shouldn’t be taken for granted. Every good man should treat his wife with respect — when they’re in the house and when they’re out. From the way you talk to her, to the way you treat her opinion or handle issues with her — there should be respect.
4. BE FAITHFUL
Of course, this is a given; every good man ought to be faithful to his wife. There should be no room for cheating, neither should there be any reason for her to be jealous of your relationship with someone else.
5. COMMUNICATE
A good husband ought to keep the communication in the marriage going; he’s to have healthy conversations with his wife, and not let other things take away the communication from the marriage.
Communication strengthens marriage, and every good husband shouldn’t take this for granted.
6. HELP OUT
Every woman would love for her husband to help out with the chores, the kids and things around the home. Even research has found that in homes where the man helps out with the chores, the couples tend to have a more satisfied marriage.
7. ATTENTION
A good husband knows that his wife shouldn’t beg for attention; he ought to pay attention to her. A woman would feel valued when she has a husband who gives her enough attention.
8. APPRECIATE HER
Every woman wants to feel appreciated, and it’s the work of every man to make his wife feel appreciated. It would be unfair to ignore all her efforts in making the relationship a happy one.
Let her know she’s appreciated in the marriage, and that her efforts don’t go unseen.
9. PUT A SMILE ON HER FACE
Every good husband looks for pocket of ways to put a smile on his wife’s face. Making your wife happy shouldn’t only be a necessity, but it should also be a priority.
Being a good husband doesn’t end at providing for the home as many men feel; if these things mentioned above aren’t found in your marriage, then you probably haven’t been doing enough.
Shawn