Sometimes, it’s hard to tell yourself a hard truth — that your relationship isn’t just working. Admitting that your relationship isn’t working anymore might just be a difficult thing to do.
The signs might be there to tell that the relationship isn’t working anymore and the bridge between you and your partner has long collapsed, but it isn’t always spotted by most partners.
These are some common signs that your relationship isn’t working anymore.
1. TRUST NO LONGER EXISTS
Trust is very important for every relationship to be successful and a lack of it signals that the relationship is on the wrong path. If trust no longer exists in a relationship, it’s impossible for the relationship to be a successful one; once trust is dead then so many things die along with it.
2. CONSTANT CONFLICTS
When your relationship is marked by constant quarrelling, arguing, fighting and other forms of misunderstanding then it’s another sign that the relationship isn’t just working. When the relationship reaches a point where conflicts outweigh understanding then it shows that the relationship isn’t working anymore.
3. YOU’VE FALLEN OUT OF LOVE
Many relationships reach this point where couples have fallen out of love with each other. This is a huge indicator that your relationship is almost as good as dead.
4. NO FUTURE
When your relationship no longer has plans for the future then it’s another huge indicator that the relationship isn’t working anymore. A good relationship has that element of the future in it; couples plan and look forward to the future together. When this dies then it simply means the relationship isn’t working anymore.
5. YOU DON’T SPICE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP
When you don’t spice up your relationship, it starts depreciating and the relationship could be on the decline till it reaches a point where it just wouldn’t work anymore.
6. WHEN YOU STOP BEING BEST OF PALS
You know how sweet, loving and caring a relationship is at the start? This becomes the opposite when that relationship stops working; couples that used to be best of pals and agree on everything would turn out to be enemies that share a relationship.
When you no longer have a relationship with your partner then it’s a sign that the relationship isn’t working anymore.
7. JEALOUSY AND OTHER BAD VICES OVERSHADOW THE RELATIONSHIP
When jealousy and other bad vices like resentment, malice, grudges, retaliation, not forgiving, selfishness etc. overshadow the love in the relationship then the relationship isn’t working anymore.
8. WHEN COUPLES STOP TRYING TO MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY
When couples stop trying to make each other happy and stop celebrating each other’s success then the relationship has reached a point where you can say that it isn’t working anymore.
9. WHEN YOU LET THE PAST COME IN THE WAY OF THE RELATIONSHIP
You can’t have a working relationship when you and your partner never forgive past mistakes and keep bringing it to the present. If your relationship is one where you both can’t let go of the past then it’s a sign your relationship isn’t working anymore.
When your relationship reaches any of these stages then it’s a sign that your relationship isn’t working anymore.
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