Have you ever been with a man who doesn’t believe in love? Many women have had experiences with men who don’t believe love exists; they haven’t had the feeling of being in love and they believe love is purely exaggerated.
This is no joke; men who don’t believe in love actually exist and these are some of the signs they show:
1. HE SEES MARRIAGE AS AN OBLIGATION
Men who don’t believe in love don’t marry because of love and affection; to men like these, marriage is just a natural process in life; to them, it’s purely an obligation as a man to get married and to raise a family.
2. NOTHING EXCITES HIM
A man in love is a happy man; little things his lady does excite and thrills him. But this isn’t the case with a man who doesn’t believe in love; romantic acts can’t make him swoon, your love gestures can’t excite him — he usually remains unfazed by every act.
3. HE’S INTO MULTIPLE WOMEN
A man who doesn’t believe in love might love sex but still won’t believe in the concept of love; men like these see sex as a sport and women as just a trophy; they engage in sex with lots of women and that’s it for them.
4. HE DOESN’T FEEL THE NEED TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
A man who doesn’t believe in love is highly predictable; he would rarely pull up a spontaneous act that would thrill you or make you happy. He’s direct, straightforward and highly old-fashioned.
5. HE DOESN’T TAKE YOUR OPINIONS TOO SERIOUS
When a man loves a woman, he wouldn’t only value her, but value her opinions as well. However, a man who doesn’t believe in the concept of love is different; he usually has this dominant way of living and he has the final say on everything.
6. THE RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT HIM
When a man who doesn’t believe in love enters a relationship with a woman; he makes it all about him. He would make the relationship revolve around him, leaving his lady in the background.
7. HE DOESN’T FEEL THE NEED TO SHOW YOU LOVE
A man who doesn’t believe in love would definitely have no idea of what it means to show you love; how can one practice something they don’t know?
8. HE MIGHT ONLY SEEK COMPANIONSHIP
Sometimes, a man who doesn’t believe in love might be different from some tips mentioned above; he might make you happy, he might value your opinions but he might not see a future with you — this kind of man is only in the relationship because of companionship — he might love your company but still won’t believe in love.
9. SEES LOVE AS A FAIRYTALE
When a man doesn’t believe in love, he sees love as a fairytale and an imaginary experience; he doesn’t believe it’s real, he just sees it as a figment of one’s imagination.
Men who don’t believe in love actually exist and these are some of the signs they show.
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Of course – this makes perfect sense. I don’t believe in love. Then why should I try to make someone happy, or react when they do stupid things to get my attention? We are in charge of our own happiness. I know what I like, and those are the things I do. I don’t want to be led around captive by some woman. I’m interested in a (LITTLE) companionship and sum fun, but nothing more. I’m not going to bend over backwards for you, and don’t expect you to do anything for me. Sex is off the table. I am what I am; you can take it or leave it. I couldn’t care less. You talk about this like it’s a sickness. There are real people out there who don’t feel love or want to be in love, whatever that is.