A mature woman is no ordinary woman; she’s in a league of her own and she displays certain traits and qualities that the regular woman wouldn’t have. A mature woman is a queen in her own right, and these are some of the qualities she displays in her relationship.
1. SHE PUTS HER RELATIONSHIP FIRST
The mature woman puts her relationship first; she isn’t selfish, rather she’s selfless. She’s the kind of woman who values her relationship and puts in genuine and consistent efforts to make it better.
2. SHE’S UNDERSTANDING
She’s also an understanding woman and one who’s empathetic. She tries to understand situations better and do what’s right and necessary; she doesn’t think of herself always.
3. SHE HAS DEEP CONVERSATIONS
A mature woman listens; she doesn’t just have regular and above the surface conversations with her man — she listens deeply and her reasoning is also deep.
4. SHE GIVES GOOD ADVICE
A mature woman is also a good critic and one who’s ready to give her man sound advice. She tries to advise her man and steer him away from making the wrong decisions.
5. SHE ISN’T A NAG
The mature woman isn’t a nag; she isn’t the type to shout and bring down the roof. She understands that nagging hardly solves a thing, so she tries to pass on her message without nagging and criticising.
6. SHE’S HONEST
Honesty is a trait that’s fast losing its ground in today’s world, but a mature woman is honest and trustworthy; she isn’t the type to tell those little white lies or lie in order to cover up a mess.
7. SHE’S GENUINE
Men always complain that many of the ladies out there are fake, and truth be told, there are many fake ladies out there. A mature woman is genuine about her feelings; she doesn’t live a fake life or a life of pretence and she loves her man genuinely.
8. SHE DOESN’T KEEP SCORES
I’ve seen a lot of couples who keep scores a lot. In all honesty, keeping scores would only take your relationship backwards and create friction in your relationship. The mature woman tries to forgive and moves on afterwards.
9. SHE WORKS ON HERSELF
The mature woman knows she isn’t in any way perfect, but this doesn’t stop her from working on her flaws and improving herself. The mature woman looks for ways to develop and improve herself at all times.
Fellas, if you have a mature woman in your life, appreciate her.
P.S: This piece isn’t targeted at women in relationships alone, but women who are also married and women in general. This piece doesn’t intend to castigate women out there or display a perfect woman, no! The aim of this piece is to make every woman a better and a well rounded partner, in spite of every imperfection one has.
ViV