Funny as it sounds, some men are husband materials while some are so far from it. There comes a point in a lady’s life when she knows that she doesn’t just have to date a guy for the sake of dating; at this point, she doesn’t want the normal ‘have fun while it lasts’ kinda relationship.
At some point, dating a man that you can have a future with becomes imperial, but the multi-million dollar question is “how do you know this man you’re dating is ready to be your man for life?”
I would share…
1. HE WOULDN’T QUIT ON YOU
The husband material kinda man wouldn’t quit on his lady no matter what (well, as far as he didn’t catch you poisoning his food. Lol); he would stand by his lady through all the trying times and make her feel assured. If he can’t do this at a mere relationship stage then marriage might be a bit too big a league for him. Note that the husband material isn’t a quitter.
2. HE’S GOOD WITH KIDS
There comes a point in a man’s life when he starts wishing to have a ‘mini-me’; if you think only women are excited at motherhood then you don’t have a clue how men long at having that first child. The husband material man wouldn’t silence you when you start talking of kids; he looks forward to having kids as well.
3. HE’S STRONG AND SUPPORTIVE
By strong I mean personality strength; like they say “being a man isn’t a day’s job”. The husband material is supportive of his lady, he knows he ought to be strong for the relationship to stand, he knows he has to be strong for the relationship to transcend to marriage smoothly, he is ready to do anything to keep the relationship going. If you have this kinda man then you have a husband material with you.
4. HE HAS THE FUTURE IN MIND TOO
The husband material isn’t just the ‘for the now’ kinda man; he thinks about building the future with you almost as much as you do. He isn’t scared of making you part of his plans; if you have a man that sees his future with you then that’s a husband material.
5. HE ISN’T LAZY
A husband should never be lazy, same goes to a husband material. Having a family isn’t as easy A,B,C; building a family with a woman isn’t like watching a game of football, it’s way more. If that man is lazy then he ain’t a husband material, no trick to it.
6. HE’S CARING
Oooh la la la la, I love this part. A husband material is caring and sensitive to his lady’s plight; he showers his lady with love, seeing his lady happy is a prerogative. Get this straight ladies, if he doesn’t care much about you when the relationship is on then if it ever transcends to marriage, it might even get worse; you don’t learn to use the left hand at old age.
7. HE’S PROUD OF YOU
If that man isn’t proud of you then he isn’t husband material for you, it’s as simple as that. Forget all the ultra-deceptive and cunny games play, a husband material is proud of his lady, she means the world to him and he treats her so. He would be proud to show you off to his family, he would show you off to friends and he would let the world know that you’re his super woman.
8. HE WOULD GO THE EXTRA MILE
The husband material is the kinda man that would go the extra mile for his lady; he would go the extra mile to be a good man for his lady, to make her happy, he would go the extra mile to make his lady his wife and would go the extra mile to make sure the relationship succeeds.
Are you confused on the kind of man you’re dating, test him with this piece; if he falls short of most of these then he isn’t husband material yet.
Viv