There are so many unromantic guys out there; but being unromantic doesn’t mean they don’t love you and they aren’t good enough for you. It’s just who they are, and it doesn’t mean you won’t enjoy the relationship with them.
Do you have an unromantic guy? These are the things you should do:
1. BE AFFECTIONATE
Be the affectionate woman; show your man what affection means and if you can, add a little PDA — but be sure he’s comfortable with it.
2. COMMUNICATE MORE
Talk to him about romance and what romance means to you. Let him understand romance from your perspective and if possible, tell him the things that make a guy romantic.
3. APPRECIATE THE LITTLE ONES HE DOES
This is also important. You must learn to appreciate the little romantic gestures he does and be patient with him as well.
4. APPRECIATE THE PROGRESS HE MAKES
Besides appreciating the little romantic gestures, appreciate every progress he makes and this will push him to do even more.
5. SEE HIS ROMANCE AS FUN
As odd as it may seem, you could see the fun side of his unromantic nature. This will make him different from other guys you’ve been with, and watching him grow will be fun.
6. BE THE ROMANTIC ONE
Since you are the romance guru and he isn’t, be the partner who makes the romance thick in the relationship. Be romantic and affectionate towards him. Give to him what you expect from him in the relationship.
7. GO EASY ON HIM
Be patient with him and don’t put too much pressure on him to be romantic. With time, he’d learn and if he doesn’t, appreciate him still.
8. FIND ROMANCE IN HIS FUN
Find out what he sees as fun, and look for romantic ways to join him in his fun. This will make room for togetherness and intimacy.
Stop complaining about having an unromantic man; having a romantic man doesn’t necessarily mean you’d have a beautiful relationship. With these tips above, you can have a romantic relationship with your unromantic man.
ViV