So many ladies date married men without even knowing the man they are with is actually married. It’s important we discuss this topic to save innocent ladies from heartbreak down the line.
Below are 8 signs the man you are dating has a wife at home
1. HE ONLY CALLS YOU DURING THE DAY
If he only calls you during the day and avoids calling or picking your calls at night, the man you are dating probably has a wife at home. The only time he calls you in the evening is when he is out of town and probably without his wife. His normal call routines are during the day, when he is driving or maybe taking a walk alone in the evening. He never calls you after he’s just woken up because his wife is definitely on the bed with him. If your man never calls or picks your calls after 6pm, he probably has a wife at home.
2. HE HAS MULTIPLE CELLPHONES AND YOU DON’T HAVE ALL HIS NUMBER
If he has three cellphone numbers and he only gives you one, chances are he has a wife at home. If he has a wife at home, you might also observe that the number you have is constantly switched off. A man who has nothing to hide would definitely give you all his numbers and won’t refuse if you ask. So do you have all his cellphone numbers?
3. HE NEVER INVITES YOU TO HIS PLACE
If you are dating a man and he never invites you to his apartment, chances are that he has a wife at home. He knows if you know his house, you might show up one day uninvited and discover he has a wife at home. If he prefers seeing you in hotels instead of taking you to his house, he might just have a wife at home.
4. HE TELLS YOU HE IS IN PROCESS OF FINALIZING HIS DIVORCE
This is a popular lie most married men use to get innocent ladies to date them. I would advice every lady to wait until he has finalized his divorce before dating him. He has no business dating when he hasn’t finalized his divorce. To avoid getting trapped, I advice every lady to wait until he finalizes his divorce before dating him because his wife might still very much be his Mrs.
5. YOU DON’T KNOW MUCH ABOUT HIM
If he rarely discusses his personal life, he might just be hiding a wife at home. Sometimes, a married man secretly dating a lady that doesn’t know he is married tend to hide personal details about himself so you don’t go digging and discovering things about him. He might be hiding a wife at home if he prefers to play his card close to his chest and never gives away too much about his friends, family or career.
6. DATES WITH HIM ARE MOSTLY UNPLANNED
If most of the dates you have with him are mostly unplanned, he might have a wife at home. If you don’t hear from him for days and suddenly he is requesting for a date with you, he might be hiding something from you. When he has a wife at home, he wouldn’t want to take you to venues with lots of people to avoid someone he knows spotting him with you and he would also be unavailable during the weekends because he has to be with his wife and kids.
7. HE NEVER ANSWERS CERTAIN CALLS IN FRONT OF YOU
If you notice him always rejecting calls when with you or avoid picking certain calls when with you, he might have a wife at home. You might also notice him giving excuses just so he can get away from you to answer his call. If he has a wife at home, you might notice him reply your text messages or Whatsapp messages hours after you sent them.
8. HIS RING FINGER IS TWO-TONED
It’s difficult noticing this if you met him late in the day. Just before you say yes to that cute and wonderful man you just met, I insist you look for a means to look for any evidence of a ring tan mark. If you observe his ring finger is two-toned, he has a wife from home and it’s best you just stay away from him or get heartbroken later.
Phil