It isn’t uncommon to see a man in love with a woman who doesn’t feel same about him.
It could be that you probably met her somewhere or through a friend and got attracted to her; you’ve taken her out on a couple of dates and nothing seems to be forthcoming.
You are head over heels for this lady who might give you a little green light today, which would raise your hopes of getting her, and for the next few weeks, she wouldn’t even give you attention. It’s no film trick; you are probably chasing after a woman who isn’t really into you, and these are some of the signs she shows:
1. SHE’S HOT AND COLD
A woman who isn’t really into you would give mixed signals a lot of the time, and it would be mostly bad signals than good ones. She might act like she wants a relationship with you today, and the next day she would be totally different.
2. YOU INITIATE EVERYTHING
With a woman who isn’t into you, you would initiate everything; from the calls, visits, dates — everything. It would be all efforts from you, and nothing from her.
3. WHEN SHE DOES CALL, SHE WANTS SOMETHING
And when she does call you, it’s usually because she wants something from you.
4. SHE TALKS ABOUT OTHER MEN WITH YOU
If she’s open to discussing other men with you, especially the ones she has feelings for, then it’s plain obvious that she isn’t really into you.
5. SHE MAKES A LOT OF EXCUSES
She always fails you, and then she has a dozen of excuses up her sleeves. A woman who isn’t really into you would give you a lot of excuses about why she can’t see you, why she didn’t pick your call and every other thing.
6. SHE SEEMS EASILY DISTRACTED
Another common trait women show when they aren’t really into you is being distracted; she could get easily carried away and look bored at other times. She can’t help it; she isn’t attracted to you enough.
7. SHE STOPS YOU FROM TALKING ABOUT HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER
When you try to bring up the relationship topic, she changes the subject or becomes cold one way or the other. That’s because she doesn’t see you as a guy she can have a relationship with — not yet at least.
8. IT’S HARD TO GIVE WHAT YOU HAVE A NAME
Sometimes she could even act like you are actually dating, and another time she could act like nothing is happening or ever going to happen. So it’s hard to give what you have a name.
Have you been with a woman like this? You might just be chasing the wrong lady bro.
Shawn