A lot of the times, there are pressure from friends, family and the society to get married or at least be in a committed relationship. Some people even put themselves under undue pressure and worry so much about relationships and marriages to the extent that they suffer depression and forget to live their lives in the process.
Many men and especially women find themselves feeling terrible and getting worried that they are still single. You shouldn’t and I would show you why.
1. IS THERE A PERFECT TIME TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Some people have an illusion of perfection; they feel there is a perfect time to be in a committed relationship and a perfect time to get married — and the only reason they judge this so-called perfection is age.
There is no perfect time to be in a relationship or get married. However, the only time that you can deem as perfect in being in a relationship or getting married is when you find the perfect partner for you; otherwise, it’s only an illusion, a fiction born out of pressure and imitating what everyone thinks or how they feel.
The goal shouldn’t even be to get married or be in a relationship, the goal should be to have the right relationship/marriage. Many people get pressured into relationships and marriages that they just enter anyone.
2. THERE IS NO LACK OF POTENTIAL PARTNER
The whole of men and women in this world cannot be exhausted. So stop feeling terrible about being single, there is a countless number of men and women out there; they never dry up.
3. WORRYING NEVER SOLVES ANYTHING
I’ve never seen anyone who got better or solved a problem by worrying. If anything, worrying deals with your mental and emotional capacity to solve a problem.
Worrying would only bring sadness, depression and unhappiness — and would make it impossible for you to live your life. So, why feel terrible and worry about being single?
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