A lot of men knowingly put up wrong habits and care less when with a lady that they don’t really fancy. However, such attitudes should be shunned and let go of when you know you have a lady that you truly care about and one you can have a future with.
There is a stage a relationship would get to where certain levels of being unserious should be shunned, and there are certain habits you should take away from your life when you have a person you know is special to you.
Is she special to you? Can you call her Mrs Right? Then the following should be let go of.
1. UNFAITHFULNESS
All those games were probably fun while you were in college or in the university; but when you meet a woman who you truly value then you know you should give up on chasing everything in skirts.
A lot of men are found wanting here; it’s very common to see a man who has found his Mrs Right but still have lingering affairs with countless women.
When you know she’s right for you then it would only be ignorant of you to keep being the player you once were.
2. IMMATURITY
Certain habits depict maturity and certain habits could show that you haven’t changed much from the boy you once were. Every man who has found a lady he can call Mrs Right should man up and start acting mature or risk losing or ruining the relationship.
3. EGO
Ego is a habit that is probably responsible for the death of many relationships and even marriages. Ego would make you do all the wrong things and make you believe you are right. If things must go well with that special lady then you should be ready to cut down your ego.
4. BEING ALWAYS RIGHT
A lot of people (men and women inclusive) have this strong feeling of being always right in whatever they do or say. Any man who has found his Mrs Right should be careful not to have such an attitude; it’s a relationship killer.
5. SHORT-TERM THINKING
The Mrs Right isn’t one you plan for the short-term with; she’s special and more valuable to you than every other lady. She’s the one you show commitment to — the one you plan for the future with.
Also, minus the fact that your future plans shouldn’t be short-term with her, your goals and ambitions in life shouldn’t also be on the short-term. The right woman deserves to be with the right man who doesn’t only think of today.
6. SELF
“I”, “me”, “mine” show one thing — self. When with the right woman, you shouldn’t be self-centred, and thinking of yourself alone is a typical way selfish people act. Her interest should also be important to you.
7. BAD HABITS
The fact that you’ve found your Mrs Right doesn’t mean you wouldn’t work on your flaws. You should learn to get rid of your bad habits as they even make it almost impossible for another person to bear. Your partner deserves a better you.
Have you found your Mrs Right? Then these things listed above should be let go of.
ViV