Not every relationship you have is actually worth it or is really meant for you. Some relationships you have never get successful because it’s with the wrong partner and it wasn’t meant for you in the first place.
What signs suggest the relationship isn’t really for you?
1. YOU’RE SCARED OF YOUR PARTNER
A relationship should feel like home; it should be a safe haven that you can run to. But when your partner evokes fear in you and make you feel unsettled, you just might be settling for a relationship that’d be full of terror.
2. YOU’RE NOT RESPECTED
Never settle for a relationship where respect is missing. When you aren’t respected in your relationship, you wouldn’t be loved and valued — can you really say that relationship is for you?
3. NO FUTURE
What’s the point of a relationship without a future? If your guess is as good as mine — there’s no point. Any relationship where you are being used isn’t a relationship you should be in, in the first place.
4. YOUR PARTNER SHOWS DANGEROUS BEHAVIOUR
If you have a relationship that could jeopardize your life and put your health and safety in danger, that relationship isn’t for you. Being in that relationship will only make you to suffer.
5. LIES AND DECEIT
If your relationship is built on lies and deceit, I wonder what you’re doing in it. Honesty should be a necessary ingredient for a successful relationship. If it’s surrounded with lies and deceit, you just might be in the wrong relationship with the wrong person.
6. YOU AREN’T VALUED
Don’t settle for less; any relationship where you’re ignored, mistreated, not valued or loved isn’t meant for you. Settling for less means you don’t even value yourself; you deserve better than such a terrible relationship.
7. YOU’RE THE ONLY INTERESTED PARTNER
A relationship shouldn’t be forced; it’s mutual. If you’re forcing someone to be in a relationship with you, then you’re in a wrong relationship. When you force a relationship on someone, be ready to do the job of two partners, and be ready to be treated poorly as well.
Have you found yourself in any of the above mentioned relationship? It just might not be for you.
Shawn