Affairs of the heart are very serious issues that should never be taken for granted. Many ladies go into a relationship for the wrong reasons, they date a guy without minding so many things they should take into consideration, and take into consideration the things that don’t matter.
Some men aren’t worth the stress and the worst part is some ladies go about fighting over every Tom, Dick and Harry. Not every guy out there wants to be in a relationship, not everyone see it as necessary, so why waste your time, emotions and everything you’ve got on a relationship that isn’t worth it?
Except it’s a fling thing or one of those fun relationships then this should be taken seriously.
I previously brought one on 7 types of women to avoid dating, now it’s time to know the men you should avoid.
1. THE ‘SEX ONLY’ MAN
Some guys are only attracted to a lady just for sex and that’s a shameful thing really, it beats all the essence of being in a relationship. When a lady is only needed for sex, it means she isn’t valued and that’s awful. Ladies, any man who only needs you for sex doesn’t value you and what’s the use of being in a relationship if you are not valued, a relationship were you would just be a sex machine. There is no reason for dating a man who just loves only the sexual part of a relationship.
2. THE VIOLENT MAN
I once did a work on why ladies still love a violent man. Prior to that, I was really surprised and confused on why a lady would notice that a man is violent and still choose to be in a relationship with him. Ladies, ladies, ladies, forget about that man who would put a scar on your beautiful skin, the pretty face and that lovely body; it’s better to stay single than be in that kinda violent relationship. You ought to know this; if he doesn’t treat you right, then he isn’t right for you.
3. THE MAN WITH NO GOALS
The man without goals is as good as clueless, so why be with a clueless man. This has nothing to do with looks, family background and wealth; it has to do with plans, dreams, desire, aim; any man without this isn’t worth the stress. The human race is one that has survived because of its goals. There is little a man without goals can bring to a relationship; it’s just a waste of time.
4. THE WOMANIZER
My colleague S.O.Z once did a work on why a cheating man isn’t man enough and I totally agree with him. A womanizer is that man who doesn’t have the sexual maturity to stick to his lady; he jumps from one lady to another. Minus his immaturity, he’s even a danger to you, in the sense that he can get you infected with an STD. Dating a womanizer is like giving your heart to a dog, the womanizer is one that can make you heartbroken with ease; ladies, he isn’t worth the stress.
5. SEXIST
It still surprises me that sexism still exists. A sexist sees women as inferior and doesn’t really see the value of women; that really is a wrong notion, every human is important, there would be no life without both sexes. Being with a sexist beats the purpose of a relationship, he doesn’t see the real value in you so there is no reason to be with him else you’d be fighting a lost cause.
6. THE ‘BLAMER’
The blame game is only what some guys are good at; no more no less. They can’t stand up and take responsibility; they would blame every other person apart from themselves. This type of guy won’t take you anywhere and I’m pretty sure almost every lady must have come across this kinda guy. Trust me when I say he’s no good; date a guy that would responsible for all his actions.
There are real men out there; the ones that would treat you like a lady, the ones that would make your relationship worth it, the ones that would do everything to make you happy, the ones that won’t want to spend a day without you, the ones that would treat you like an angel.
You shouldn’t be in a relationship with every Tom, Dick and Harry.
Shawn