Having a fight with your wife might not mean the end of the world, neither does it mean that your marriage is terrible, but how you talk to her and the things you say to her can determine how healthy or unhealthy your marriage could become.
These are some things you should never for any reason say to her during a fight.
1. “IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT”
Heaping all the blames on her is the worst thing you could ever say to her during a fight. Playing the blame game will only bring more problems, and it’s only right to take responsibilities and not transfer blames.
2. “NO OTHER WOMAN WOULD ACT LIKE THIS”
Comparing your woman to other women or trying to make her feel like the worst woman out there is one of the worst things you can ever say to your wife during a fight. You should be the one who’ll make her feel like the best woman in the world, and not the other way round.
3. “YOU’RE…”
Whatever comes after the “you’re” is never healthy during a fight. Name-calling is very bad and will leave negative imprints on your marriage for a very long time.
4. “I DON’T CARE”
No! You ought to care, it’s your duty to care; you just have to care. If you don’t care, who else should? Besides, that statement says a lot about how you, and it will hurt her deeply.
5. NEVER THREATEN HER
Never threaten to leave her just because of a fight; you ought to make your woman feel confident about the marriage and not feel threatened.
6. “YOU’RE GOING TO MAKE ME HATE YOU”
This is another common thing a lot of men say to make their wife feel guilty, but it’s wrong. Never give her the impression that your love for her will diminish, and you should rather focus on the problem at hand than try to make her feel guilty.
Remember to always watch what you say to your woman during a fight. One thing with words is that it can never be taken back, and the scars it could leave in the heart, could take a very long time to heal.
Shawn