One thing that’s always constant in a relationship is sign, but sometimes we fail to read meaning to signs and by the time we decide to react, those signs become real, and it just might be too late.
When your relationship is in trouble, there would definitely be signs that the relationship is troubled and action needs to be taken before those troubles capsize your relationship.
I bring you six signs that your relationship is in trouble.
1. CONSTANT QUARRELS
When your relationship is at a stage where the quarrels keep coming thick and fast, then you ought to watch it. When you and your partner keep quarreling over every little thing then it means there is poor understanding between the both of you. Constant quarrels and arguments won’t make you agree over anything. Understanding is needed for any relationship to succeed. When there are constant quarrels in your relationship then your relationship is definitely in trouble.
2. THERE IS LITTLE COMMUNICATION
When a relationship is in the waters, another major sign is that there would be little communication. For a relationship to work, calls and other forms of communication come to the fore. Poor communication just means that you two aren’t interested in each other anymore which is a sharp contrast from when the relationship started. For a relationship to be healthy, constant communication is key; when it’s unhealthy, communication is at a low.
3. ONE PARTY FEELS CHEATED
When one person or even both in a relationship starts feeling cheated, then that’s a sign of a troubled relationship. When you start feeling cheated in a relationship, it might lead to dissatisfaction which might in turn lead to complains which would as well lead to quarrels and break up won’t be far away as well. When there is dissatisfaction on the part of one partner, it’s a huge sign that the relationship is in trouble.
4. THEY BOTH DON’T LISTEN TO EACH OTHER
It’s normal when a couple always listen to each other; it’s one of the strong points of a relationship. Before a major decision is taken, your partner must be aware, and when he/she needs someone to listen to, the partner should be there as well. But when no one listens to the other, there is definitely trouble in that relationship.
5. LACK OF INTIMACY
When a relationship is new, it is usually surrounded by intimacy, loads of intimacy to be precise. But when there is little or no intimacy shown, then it’s a sign that the relationship is in trouble. Intimacy builds that passion in the relationship, and when there is no passion then the relationship is definitely in trouble.
6. VISITING BECOMES INFREQUENT
It’s only normal to want to see your partner regularly when the relationship is at its peak. But when a relationship reaches a stage where you both don’t have that desire to see each other, then that relationship is in trouble; it shows there is no passion and care, and everything that holds the relationship is at a low.
When you notice any of these signs in your relationship, then you don’t need a prophet to tell you that your relationship is in trouble and when those troubles are not solved, it is an issue, and it just might lead to the end of that relationship.
Shawn