If your relationship has grown to the extent of marriage, that is you and your partner are planning to tie the knot, there are certain things that person has to know about you.
Leading your partner on even when you know that it isn’t the way to go is a wrong thing to do. Keeping certain secrets from your partner can backfire in the future.
These are some of those secrets you should never keep from your partner.
1. YOUR HEALTH
Your health should never be kept secret from the partner you intend marrying. If you have some health complications or even a sexually transmitted disease, then your partner should know. It would be unfair to lead your partner on only for them to discover what you have been carrying all the while.
2. FINANCE
Finance is an important part of marriage, and it’s important to let your partner in on the state of your finance beforehand. If you’re in debts, your partner should know as well. Don’t pretend to be rich when you are poor. Let your partner love you for who you are and be content with what you have.
3. AN AFFAIR
It’d be unfair to carry an affair into marriage, and it could also be disastrous if your partner finds out about the affair before you expose it. Don’t try to protect the relationship only for it to crash in future.
4. BAD HABITS AND ADDICTIONS
If you have certain uncontrollable habit and addictions, it’s important to let your partner become aware rather than let them get married to you and face addictions they never bargained for.
5. CHILDREN
Your partner also has the right to know if you have had a child from your past relationship. Such a thing should never be kept a secret. Your partner should know that you have a child with someone else, irrespective of whether you are the man or woman.
6. ANY SITUATION THAT COULD DESTROY THE MARRIAGE IN FUTURE
Very importantly, anything that could jeopardise the future of your relationship should also be revealed before that relationship goes into marriage. Any past situation that could affect your marriage in future or destroy the peace in your home should be revealed beforehand.
Some things you feel that are mere secrets could harm the future of your marriage, and it will be terrible to face the consequences then. Moreover, your partner should know everything about you before marriage.
ViV
Totally agree.