Being with a lying partner can be as terrible as being with a cheating partner; just as cheating is a form of betrayal, a partner that won’t stop lying to you is also a form of betrayal.
A lot of people end up with partners that just won’t stop lying to them, and many are confused as to whether they should leave the relationship or not.
We’ve brought you 9 reasons a lying partner is as bad as a cheating partner, now it’s time to know the reasons why you shouldn’t be with such a partner.
1. IT SHOWS A LACK OF RESPECT
It’s unfair to put up acts that are unworthy in a relationship, and it’s even bad when you can’t stand up to those acts. Lying shows disrespect and when your partner keeps lying to you time after time, it shows that your partner doesn’t respect you enough or the relationship.
2. THEY PROMISE TO CHANGE BUT NEVER DO
Many lying partners promise to change time and over again, but they never do. Being with a partner who can’t change such a despicable act for the benefit of the relationship is purely a waste of time. Such a relationship would never be successful.
3. TRUST IS BROKEN
No relationship can survive without trust, and a perpetual lying partner has only broken the trust in the relationship. When trust is broken, it’s hard to be regained. Moreover, what’s the use being with a partner that you can’t trust or that isn’t trustworthy?
4. YOU KEEP GETTING HURT
With a partner that’s a perpetual liar, one thing is sure — you keep getting hurt time and time again. What’s the point of being in a relationship where you are always hurt?
5. IT SHOWS YOUR PARTNER DOESN’T LOVE YOU ENOUGH
Love isn’t just what you say; love is what you do. If all your partner does is lie to you, and then tries to hold you down with talks of love, you are only being deceived. A partner that loves you would show it in not only words but action, and lying just shows a lack of love.
6. YOU DESERVE BETTER
You deserve better than a partner that would only lie to you time after time. You deserve a partner that’s trustworthy, someone that would do enough to keep you in their lives, not a partner that would tell you lie upon lie — that’s never a healthy relationship to be in.
Shawn