6 IMPORTANT THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD CONSIDER BEFORE SAYING I DO

4. DOES HE RESPECT YOU?

Trust me when I say you won’t love to be continually disrespected in your marriage. You shouldn’t expect much from a man who doesn’t treat you with respect; your man should respect you, your body, your opinions and you should take part in the decision making; anything to the contrary to these might show that he doesn’t actually have that much respect for you.

5. IS HE HONEST OR USUALLY DECEITFUL?

If he lies to you in the course of the relationship, and he lies time without number then you are heading into the kind of marriage where you just can’t trust your man. Trust makes a marriage beautiful — when it’s lacking, it gives room to loopholes which would lead to all manner of atrocities.

6. HIS PAST

I was going to write on 5 important things to consider but my mind got opened to this while rounding up this article, and this is one thing many women take for granted. You just have to know the man you are getting married to in and out. A lot of women have fallen by getting married to criminals, child molesters and men with all manner of negative lifestyles, including men who go around duping rich women in the name of marriage. You shouldn’t get married to a man who wouldn’t be open to you with everything about him.

Know who you are getting married to before saying you do. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but a bitter marriage is the worst thing on earth any woman could wish for.

ViV