There is this saying that ‘love is blind’; that saying is correct in every bit of the word because when you’re in love with someone, you tend to see things from a different perspective which only you can relate with, and sometimes that could even mean shying away from reality.
The sweet thing about getting married is staying married and not just staying married but enjoying being married, but all these won’t be possible if the man you say ‘I do’ to turns out not to be worth it.
Women tend to endure so many things during courtship with the hope that the man would change after marriage.
6 important things every woman should consider before saying I do:
1. IS HE PROMISCUOUS?
Getting married to a promiscuous man with the hope that he would change after marriage is really wrong. If he’s the unfaithful type then you just might be in for a lot when you finally get settled with him. Marriage doesn’t come with a magic wand that would just give you anything you wish for; if your man can’t curb his promiscuous lifestyle before marriage then you should be ready to either have a rethink before it’s too late or settle with his lifestyle in marriage.
2. IS HE VIOLENT?
If he has hit you during the courtship era then that’s a feat you wouldn’t want to receive continually when you get married to him. This is one thing women fail to consider before marriage, but end up regretting after saying ‘I do’. If he used you as his punching bag when you were dating then don’t expect different when you get married to him. Remember the wise saying “a leopard doesn’t lose its spot overnight”.
3. HOW MUCH DOES HE ACTUALLY LOVE YOU?
This is important! This is important! This is important! If he didn’t really show you enough love when you were dating then you shouldn’t expect any better when married. Yes he proposed to you; yes, he wants to get married to you; but it definitely doesn’t end there, there are a lot of married women who feel lonely, dejected and lack love and support from their man. You just have to be sure that you are committing your future to someone who loves you.
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