Finding out that your man has been cheating on you especially if you have been entirely faithful in the relationship can be a very hurtful experience.
Yes, you have been hurt; all your defences have been blown away, but like in every other situation, life must go on.
Every woman has a decision to make after she’s found out that her man has been cheating on her, and it boils down to two major things: can you continue with the relationship or would you rather leave?
1. IS CONTINUING THE RELATIONSHIP WORTH IT OR NOT?
This is the boldest decision to make after finding out that your man has been cheating; you need to ask yourself very important questions and its answer should boil down to two important factors – you and your man. Are you ready to survive with the relationship and make it work after that? Do you still love your man even after finding out that he’s been unfaithful? Then your man: was it a mistake he’s ruing or one he enjoyed? Is he ready to make up for his mistakes and be honest afterwards? Does he still love you? Is he one that would make same mistake again in the future? The answers to these questions hold a lot of weight to whether continuing the relationship is actually worth it.
2. IF YOU CONTINUE, YOU OUGHT TO ERASE THE MEMORIES
It’s okay if you feel that you can continue with the relationship, but it wouldn’t be okay if you continue that relationship and make every bit of it a reminder that your man cheated on you; if you have forgiven him then let it be, it’s not easy but for the relationship’s sake it’s worth it. Your actions and reactions thereafter would mean a lot in whether that relationship would survive or die out.
3. TALK THINGS OUT
A lot of talking has to go on; you should bare your mind and your man should too; total honesty is needed at this point. Talking things out with your partner would surprise you on a lot of things you would learn afterwards.
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