The dream of every man when they start a new relationship is for it to last for forever. Why most men want their relationship to last forever, a large number don’t really know how to make it last. Many have lost loved ones due to failed relationships because they just didn’t know how to keep them. If you really want to make your relationship work, there are five simple but difficult things you need to do.
1. QUALITY TIME TOGETHER WITH HER
It’s normal to see a guy spend quality time when he is asking a lady out and it surprises me how everything stops the moment she says yes. Brothers, you’ve got to keep doing the things that made you win her heart. She loved the time you spent with her while you chased her, so why change everything now.
2. COMMUNICATION IS KEY
When you chased her, you called her all day but after she said yes, you just stopped. Because she said yes don’t mean she said no to communication. If you called her 4 times a day while chasing her, then you should double it when you win her.
3. INTIMACY SHOULD BE HIGH
That is one of the reasons she said yes, you have got to maintain the intimacy. S*x is not just the only way to do this, hugging, holding hands and kissing are very important as well. How often do you just kiss her? How often do you hold her hands especially in public places? These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself.
4. LET YOUR PARTNER HAVE A LIFE OUTSIDE YOU
She probably had friends or loved doing some things alone when she was single, she would be happy if you still let her keep doing those things. Let her hang out with her friends or do the things she always loved doing. Her life shouldn’t just change because she met you.
5. BE SENSITIVE
Women love men that are sensitive to their needs; you should know when she wants to be hugged, when she needs to be alone, when she needs you to help bail her out.
Just know when she says yes, you shouldn’t just stop doing the things you did that made you win her but you should instead double everything you did.