Sometimes the right one can turn into the wrong one and it can be really difficult quitting.
It’s really difficult letting go of someone who meant so much to you even after you have been hurt.
Here are 5 tips that will help let go of someone who meant so much to you but hurt you really bad.
1. GIVE YOURSELF TIME
Leaving someone who meant so much to you but hurt you can be really difficult but the truth is that it will get easier with time. Don’t be in a hurry to start a new relationship because you really don’t need that. All you need is time to heal.
2. UNDERSTAND WHY THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED
You have to understand why the relationship ended or you might find yourself longing to go after an ex that treated you bad. When you understand why the relationship ended, it becomes easier to counter the thoughts of you and ex spending time together. When you understand why the relationship ended, it becomes easier to make it clear to yourself why you need to let him/her go.
3. SPEND TIME WITH FRIENDS
Spending time with friends will help you through the pain. Create time to be with your friends and enjoy your hobbies with your friends. Avoid being alone and thinking of the good times you shared; that would hurt you even more.
4. MEET NEW PEOPLE
Instead of staying indoors and thinking of your ex that hurt you really bad, go out and meet new people. Make new friends. Please don’t go sleeping with your new friend. Make new friends, have fun and one of your friends might just be the right one in future.
5. LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIP
If you don’t learn anything from past mistakes, you will end up making the same mistake with the next person you meet. Improve the part of you that needs to be worked on and also take note of the red flags you should watch out for in a prospective partner.
Phil