5 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO ENSURE YOU END UP MARRYING THE RIGHT PERSON

A lot of people have the idea that it’s very difficult to end up with the right person in marriage; even I, myself used to think along that line until my eyes were opened to the reality I’m about to share with you.

The truth about making the right choice of a partner in marriage is that it is actually easy, but a lot of us are often caught up in the excitement that come with our relationships that we forget to evaluate and access our partner properly before making the ultimate decision. When you ignore what is right and in the interest of tomorrow because of the thrills of today, regret and disappointment are what usually follow.

As a young person in a relationship you hope will lead up to marriage, your choice of whom to marry must be made with the following in mind…

1. DO NOT MARRY POTENTIAL

Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential.  There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them.  These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.

2. PRIORITIZE CHARACTER OVER CHEMISTRY

While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote goes, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.”  Of course, love is important, but the idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love.  The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness.

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