There are certain things in our lives as men that need to go if we really want to have a fulfilling relationship. I understand change is hard because it requires you dropping some certain aspects of which have really being part of you but these changes are really needed if you want a fulfilling relationship.
Below are 5 things every man must give up for love
1. SHORT-TERM THINKING
When we were all much younger as men, we were only interested about now and rarely cared about the future. The motto was live life for now but this is an attitude every man needs to give up if they really want a fulfilling relationship. No serious woman wants a man who has no future plans for himself. You need to give up short-term thinking today if you desire to have a fulfilling relationship.
2. BAD HABITS
There are certain bad habits that need to go if you really want a fulfilling relationship. You can’t desire to have the right woman when you are the wrong man. It doesn’t work that way. You have to make yourself the right man for every woman by dropping your bad habits. I know some would say the right woman would love a man for who he is but does that mean she has to love a terrible man? Work on yourself today by dropping those terrible habits you have.
3. IMMATURITY
You need to drop those traits of immaturity if you desire to have a fulfilling relationship. You can’t have a phobia for romance and commitment and expect to be with a mature lady. Every woman expects you to mature as you grow up and start building a foundation for the future. Every woman expects you to start taking responsibilities and stop living like a kid. You need to give up traits of immaturity in you if you desire a fulfilling relationship.
4. UNWILLINGNESS TO COMPROMISE
You can’t continue living with that ‘I am always right’ attitude and expect a fulfilling relationship from any woman. You have to drop that habit of wanting to win every argument and learn to start compromising instead. You have to learn to become flexible as this is an important quality we all need in our relationships. You cannot always have things your way and expect a relationship to operate smoothly. It requires give and take from both people.
5. EGO
Every man had this huge ego growing up but this is something we need to give up if we really want to have a fulfilling relationship. To have a fulfilling relationship, you need to be open to learning. You need to learn from your partner just as your partner needs to learn from you and you can’t achieve this when you have a huge ego. You have to give up your ego today if you want a fulfilling relationship.
Phil