What do you think are the important indicators of a lasting relationship? If you think having a conflict with your partner is an indicator your relationship won’t last, then you are wrong.
Max Blumberg a psychologist and researcher at London’s Goldsmiths University reveals the signs that prove your relationship is meant to last in an article published in Daily Mail.
1. HOW OFTEN YOU ARGUE?
Arguing with your partner doesn’t indicate your relationship isn’t built to last. What you should be worried about is how often you argue with your partner. Arguing frequently with your partner proves you have a relationship that isn’t built to last.
2. YOU HAVE MORE GOOD TIMES THAN BAD TIMES
Having more good times than bad times is an important indicator you have a relationship that is built to last. According to Max Blumberg, a psychologist and researcher at London’s Goldsmiths University, “you should have at least six good experience in a relationship to every bad one.”
3. YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER
Talking about your relationship with your partner is another important indicator you have a relationship that is built to last. According to Blumberg, not talking about your relationship with your partner isn’t a good sign because “it often means there are issues bubbling under the surface.”
4. YOUR FRIENDS APPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
How most of your friends see your relationship is also another important indicator that reveals if your relationship will last or not. Having most of your friends disapproving your relationship might mean your relationship won’t last.
5. YOU ARE HAPPY DOING NOTHING TOGETHER
Blumberg also revealed doing nothing with your partner is another indicator that your relationship is built to last. If you have a relationship where you and your partner can be quiet together without doing nothing, that could indicate your relationship is built to last.
Phil