Trust is one word that is lacking in most relationships; most ladies easily say they trust their man but deep down that is a sugar-coated lie. Trust seems way harder to achieve than betrayal, betrayal is even more common in relationships which makes trust just another forlorn theory.
Every man should work hard to gain his lady’s trust because trust doesn’t come easy. A relationship where trust exists makes the relationship easy and sweeter.
I would share with you five reasons why trust is needed in your relationship
1. IT CURBS OUT JEALOUSY
Jealousy is a major relationship killer; it can be used to your advantage only when there is just a slight seed of jealousy, but anything other than that would ruin your relationship. When trust exists, jealousy won’t have powers to kill that relationship. If you can gain your lady’s trust then you would kill over 90% of the jealousy instilled in her.
2. TRUST BRINGS PEACE OF MIND
When trust exists, the relationship is at peace but a lack of trust would creates unrest in that relationship. When a woman trusts her man, she has no reason to worry her mind about her man’s whereabouts but when she doesn’t, she definitely won’t be at peace.
3. IT MAKES THE RELATIONSHIP SOLID
Any relationship built on trust is a solid relationship; a relationship without trust would be a shaky one, there are no two ways about it. When trust exists, the relationship has a foreseeable future; it gives no partner doubt and doubt is a major relationship killer.
4. IT STRENGTHENS LOVE
Trust strengthens the love in your relationship. When a lady knows she can trust her man, her feelings for him goes up the more because she knows how lucky she is to get that kind of man that rarely exists. Trust has a way of making couples love each other the more, the same way doubt has a way of creating enmity.
5. IT GIVES THE RELATIONSHIP HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
When trust exists in a relationship, there is hope for the future; everyone wants their future not just with someone who they love but someone they can trust as well. Trust gives that assurance of hope in that relationship; trust gives that assurance that you are not going into yet another failed relationship; trust brings happiness, trust gives security, trust is what every relationship needs.
Are you a man that a lady can trust? Build trust in your relationship and your relationship would blossom the more.
Shawn
Hello am Edward Roy here in zambia Africa. Am your fun who reads almost every post of yours.
However I have been dating this girl I so love but she lost my trust its not easy trusting her back because she does little or nothing to get her back. And it kills me every day knowing that I still love her although with minimal trust but onething am certain is that she can never be my wife. Now I need help from you. First you have dweled much on ladies side than you have on us men. On the assurances I need vivid assurance to know that she’s changed and I can trust her back, what can she do? Secondly anyway I think the rest are ok. Because I swear am having multiple thoughts on her. Finally what does sex mean to a lady because I seem to be praised much in bed by her than I would prefer to be praised in other things.
Yours Edward Roy a university student in zambia.
After reading your comment Edward, one thing that really caught my attention is you are certain she can never be your wife. So what i would want to know is why stick with a man you are certain you don’t trust and can never marry as you said? You also didn’t tell us why you stopped trusting her. You should understand if you want to trust her again, you have to first forgive what wrong she did that made you lose the trust. That has to be the first step, Edward. You would never know if she is a changed person until you forgive her. About the question you asked related to her praise for only your performance on bed, you should understand sex alone can’t keep any relationship.Thanks Edward for being a fan.
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